Long-distance love
By lynettebyc
@lynettebyc (2416)
China
August 11, 2009 7:29pm CST
Do you believe in long-distance? Two guys barely know each other, had a blind date and then apart becuause of work. They do chat on the internet & send short messages via mobile everyday and have phone calls sometimes. Then they feel the love and suffer from the distance. Can you believe that? Will this relationship last?
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
12 Aug 09
Long distance relationship do last if one believes in it.. Trust is something very important in a long distance, if not, it's gonna very vulnerable, because we are not there to see or hear..
However, it's more likely for a long distance to last, when it begins where they dun even see each other in the first place.. BEcause since they are able to start if off that way, there's a certain level of trust and love in it.. So it's just a matter of maintaining it.. hehe
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
19 Aug 09
MOst things started out being easy, and thus one tends to take it for granted as time goes by.. So, that's the period of time, whereby both parties needs to put in effort in maintaining the whole relationship.. IF not, before one realises it, the love between them will already be gone..
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@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
21 Aug 09
Thanks, kun, sometimes I'd feel that the relationship will not last unless carry out frequent chat. The feeling will disapper from time to time especially when one's too busy to keep them contacted.
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@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
18 Aug 09
Hi, kun, thanks for sharing. This long distance relationship should build on mutual-trust just as you said, and success belongs to the perservering. Why one's been away for about 7 months, it is difficult to maintain I guess. Whenever you want to do something, say watch movie or travel, he's not there.
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@haiershen (1080)
• China
29 Aug 09
for long-distance love, trust is very important thing, if both of you can be trust each other,nowdays, this situation always happened around us,the main reason is for job, in order to get a good salarys or those working position.and so on, so this is no choice to changed, under this situation, doing contact frequently on line or on phone is a way to make good relationship.good luck and have a nice day!
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@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
30 Aug 09
Hey, haiershen, you're right. Trust is very important in relationship wehether it's long distance or not.
In the past, when i'm still a kid, it's rare that a couple work in different cities, but now they're more and more. Because of the high technology, but i still don't get used to this situation.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
12 Aug 09
"two guys?" Are you talking about a friendship or a gay relationship between to people of the male gender, as the word "guys" would suggest?
As for long distance relationships of any kind, my husband and I met over the internet, while I was in Canada, and he was in Arizona. We were long distance for quite a while, mainly over the phone. In early 2007 I was able to fly down there, and we realized that things were as wonderful as we thought they were, we fell in love all over again, and ended up getting married. Now we are up here in Canada.
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@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
12 Aug 09
Hello, danish, I mean a man and a women, sorry.
Do you have problem with communicating when you're far away? Can't properly understand each other's life or work in the other place maybe. Did you quarrel more than you're together? please share.
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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12 Aug 09
Hi lynettebyc,
It all depends on the couple, but I don't think it will work as most long distance relationship don't seem to last, maybe they do who knows but good luck to them.
Tamara
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@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
12 Aug 09
Thanks. tamara, thanks. Why do you think long-distance relationship don't last as ordinary one? Calls, SMS, chat.. so many ways to keep in touch, why just they can't look from each other's point of view?
