children
By vathsala
@vathsala30 (3732)
India
August 11, 2009 9:33pm CST
are your children are useful to the family? In so many houses i saw children are pampered because of their working parents who has no time for their children and leave them under the care of the ayahs who do not bother to teach them nice things, subsequently the children becomes adamant, do not listen to their parents and selfish.
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@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
27 Jun 10
Hi indahfth
In so many families, i have seen that the fathers will be the problem for the family, either they do not give money properly to run the family or some fathers will be drunkards and beat the wife and children which affects the growth of the child both physically and psychologically. In some other families, the father will have an affair and ignore the wife and the child. You are doing a great job by bringing up your child to become a useful person, to the family, religion and the country. Hats off to you and I salute such moms
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@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
4 Jul 10
Undoubtedly you are a best mother my friend and that is why you always seek the best for your child. A mother will always play a special role in her life and strive hard for the upbringing of her children even if she needs to face so many hardships in her life
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
16 Aug 09
I don't think it's bad to leave your kid with a nanny. It's not leaving your kid with a nanny that's the problem. My friends do this, but they big issue is their still mom and dad. The issue here is that some parents don't act like parents, and they let the nanny do all the raising. Is it any wonder than that those children then don't listen to them? I'm not surprised!
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
27 Jun 10
Even I have seen some such parents who leave their children under the care of the nanny and do not bother about the child. Then the child naturally attached more to the nanny than the parents. As the child grows bigger, will not have any bondage with the parents and do not care them.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
12 Aug 09
In the present complex time husband and wife going for work is unavoidable.
Then leaving children with governess is a necessity. The parents should
spend as much time as possible with children and teach them good things.
They should also keep a watch on the governess as to how she is moving
with them and correct her if necessary.
