Can you talk with your friends about person who you are in love or you can t?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
August 12, 2009 1:45pm CST
Many peoples can t talk or just don t want talk about his intimacy or about his feelings with his family and friends; maybe is shame, maybe is pride, maybe is not true love, is just addiction, and don t want let others to know how many love relationship he have. Is true? Do you can talk about your love with your family and friends, or you hide that you are in love?
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9 responses
@meapas (2436)
• India
12 Aug 09
I did talk but before that, everybody had come to know it, so there was no secret left
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@soulist (2985)
• United States
12 Aug 09
I can talk to my friends about anything. I talk to my best friend about everything that is going on in my life from relationships to work related things. I mean I don't go into details about our intimate aspects I want my friends to know what is going on in my life no matter what. They are the most important people in my life so why would i keep that a secret?
• China
21 Aug 09
I will definitely tell my friends about my love.I like sharing with friends whatever it is good or sad~ But as for my family,maybe not.coz they are too nagging sometimes,and if I was hurt by someone,I don't want them to know it,either.I don't hope to make them worried about me.
• India
14 Aug 09
Yes before a lover i am a good friend i will share all the secrets i can about anyone i am in love with and these helps me get through the pain i have any and some friends try to help me to get my love in one way or other ... but sharing my love feeling helps and helps .
12 Aug 09
I try to tell my friends to whole truth, but sometimes it's very difficult to. For the same reasons you stated, maybe i'm just so addicted and I don't want my friends to think I'm overly obsessed with the person I'm in love with. So basically, they only hear the truth but to a limited point. It would be very hard to hide the feelings of being in love, sometimes you are just so giddy your friends will be suspicious, something is going on.
• Canada
12 Aug 09
It's healthy for your mind and spirit to be open, if you love someone then let them know, of course talking about intimacy might be inappropriate, most people keep hush hush out of respect for their partner who may be shy about it. everyone has insecurities about certain things.
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@IzzyKitty (116)
• United States
13 Aug 09
Only certain, or close friends. I don't trust many people with my personal life. I guess it's just cautiousness, respect, and a lot of pride. But with the people I do talk about it with... they can't get me to shut up! LOL I listen to their stories all the time though and we happily relate :)
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
12 Aug 09
I can not keep it secret. Always my story to others, especially to my close friend. I did not mean to boast. But want to get a response from them, for a better relationship, that I may never think about before.
@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
13 Aug 09
Is a hard answer, but i think that sometimes is good to talk about something what you feel, in special if you have a problem. I am not one who like talk to much with who know me about my life, but sometimes i need talk with somebody, and is strange...i like to talk with strangers,with who i can talk just once, and after i will talk any more. But who know me good, can see in my eyes what i feel, so i can t hide, even i want to.