Womans Husband of 10 Years Donates Sperm To Ex Girlfriend

United States
August 13, 2009 12:43pm CST
During the early mornings on my way to work I listen to The Steve Harvey Morning Show,on KJLH, a local radio station in the Los Angeles are. Usually Steve reads letters that women or men write in for advice. some of the letter he recieves are out of the norm, but I have to say this womans letter topped the cake. Apparently this womens husband decided to donate his sperm to his ex girlfriend so that she can have a child. The mans wife has been trying to give her husband children for years but has been unsuccessful. she feels maybe that is the reason for him donating his sperm, to have children. She wanted to know should she leave him, because technically he didn't cheat.... there was no courting envolved with his EX. I would leave him. I beleive even though he did not court this his EX, the out come of his donations are just the same. having a child is nothing to play with, you have major responsabilities. The Man and his Ex would have to keep in touch for the sake of the child. this can ruin a marriage. plus he should only be concerned with having children with his wife... what is he doing still contacting his EX. he could adopt children if they can't have any thereselves. I think she should leave him what do you think?
2 responses
• Malaysia
14 Aug 09
I don't see there is any point for this man to donate his sperm, especially to his EX. If this man really love his wife, he should concern with his wife feeling. His EX can simply get the sperm from other donor, and this man and his wife can try other method to get their own children. If I'm in this woman shoes , i'll be very very mad if he still continue with his plan after knowing my feeling. I definitely will leave him, because i don't think so that i can bear with all the sad, disappointed, and heart broken feeling in the future.
• United States
13 Aug 09
I would be beyond angry, I would definitely leave. There is no reason to donate sperm to an ex, she could have gotten it from an anonymous donor. What if he wants contact with the child?