Can colleagues be your very close friends?
By sutent
@sutent (1060)
China
August 14, 2009 1:06am CST
Hi,
In adult world, colleagues relationship is important part of our life. So how to handle the relationship? Can colleagues be our veru close friends? Maybe it is not easy to answer the question. But i still look forward to your sharing.
Happy mylotting!
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3 responses
@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Aug 09
As to me, colleagues are colleagues and I don't regard them as my own friends. As I can share my secrets with my good friends. I can even lose temper to them. I will be myself when I am in front of them. Whereas I have to be kind to colleagues and try to get on well with them for the sake of work. It is quite different.
I love China
@sutent (1060)
• China
14 Aug 09
Hi youless,
Nice to meet you, my compatriot! 14376 posts, that is a lot. I would be very happy when i get my 1000 posts. Just like you, i also do not consider them as my close friend. Of course, i can not share my secrets with them. Just recently, one of my colleagues had set me up for his interest. As to me, colleague is just colleague and can not be friend, much less be close friend.
Happy mylottign!
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@sutent (1060)
• China
14 Aug 09
Hi,
i had not ended up being good friends from my colleagues to date. From beginning, i just consider them as my colleagues without any consideration of being close friend. In my opinion, interests and friendship can not coxiest with each other and colleagues can not be friends due to the same.
Happy mylotting!
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@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey,
I personally think that my colleagues aren't really my friends. I just see them every day of my life, but they don't really seem friendly. They also NEVER keep secrets, where my brother experimented with them, and found out the hard way. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
