love should be end become marriage, is it?

India
August 15, 2009 4:16am CST
in our growing age we like somebody as our our nature, needs and so on. after some days we feel specially softness on the other. we want to spend our more times with each other. we are going with understanding, care each other and so on. we feel need of us or we going through love. but in marriage some calculation is there. our family value, tradition, culture, economic condition each is create some problem in our life. then what can we do? we should sacrifices our love or protest our family! can we give the unique solution? thanks........with love love should be end become marriage........
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@jaiho2009 (39146)
• Philippines
15 Aug 09
Hello partha, Should love be ends on marriage? Is this what you want to mean? Of course,most love relationship ended up to marriage. On the first stage of love relationship,time for knowing each other,the differences,cultures and traditions are some ascpects to be considered. If both can adjust with each differences and feel that love can make their relationship strong,then,they plan for marriage. In the name of love...no cultures nor traditions can ever be a hindrance. What matters most is the two people concerns. Love will always finds a way.
• India
16 Aug 09
hi jaiho, thanks for responding. i am agree a lot with you. actualy i am a newbie in this site. so i have some languastics problem and it interpreted my view. sory for that. i shall try for clearing from it. love is always find way. but we have lot of responsibility to our parents also. if they become adament in their position what we can do?
@jaiho2009 (39146)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
i could understand about you my friend,that our obligations to our parents will not gonna end when we get married. But if your parents loves you,they must try to understand that,you also had a life of your own to face and it's a reality. I have known that most marriages in India were of arranged marriage,so,i guess your parents would have consider some responsibilties on your side when you get married.
• India
22 Aug 09
thanks for your kind solution. a great speech u have said and i appreciate it. lol
@shibham (16977)
• India
16 Aug 09
no there, i don't think so that marriage means the end of love. marriage is not a agile decision, we must have to enact it by various features. yes we are owed to our family by some aspects and we have to compromise something in this regard. love, i mean true love can be stay as today in our post married life too. it is matter of your view that how u will handle it.lol
• India
16 Aug 09
ya marriage is not a agile decision. but our feelings also is there. how we can convince ourself?