i send all my friends on my friendster list comments but in my surprise.....
By roniroxas
@roniroxas (10560)
Philippines
August 15, 2009 8:00pm CST
on of my friends has this message on the comment box [b][i]Hello friends...
Comments are really not necessary, just keep those thoughts of how i am as a person and a friend ...,,i just want you all guys to see how life's been good to me with friends around and career..enjoy viewing[/i][/b]
comments are really not necessary? just keep those thoughts? wow i was shocked seeing that on her friendster comment box. if you read one something like this what would you feel?
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5 responses
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Aug 09
Hi there!
It appears really disappointing and surprising. How one can know about others without any comments, one cannot 'imagine' in mind what the other fellow is thinking about him/her.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
yes that is exactly what was on my mind. keep it to myself? then that is what friends is all about? thats wierd. she treats us like all of us are her fans not friends. that is really very rude, well for me. some think that comments are not necessary at all but this one really mad me sad or hurt maybe or shocked. thanks for the response
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 09
Yes, you are right, her comments were very disappointing and if she continues like it, you will have to re-consider about your relationship/friendship with her, I feel so.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
it maybe shocking to you. but i agree to her. Long before, comment was meant for adjective of your friend as how you know and see him as your friend. but now a days, it's different, they put cheap html quotes and some graphics, and others seemling just doing a bit chat n the comment section. so, probably that prompted her to say such things. she was being true to herself.
. that's one reason why i removed the comments sortie in my profile.
Have a Great day...@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
so i am just being fuzzy about it? 
silly me. well for me when i give comments or testimonials that means i meant it. specially if we havent speak for so long and i send a glittery graphics on saying hi, or how are you. maybe its just me. maybe i was really shock with that. maybe i just dont need to be fuzzy about it and just dont send her any because for her it is not necessary. but like you, you removed your comments sortie on you page. if it is not necessary for her i think she needs to do that too. thanks for the response pal.
silly me. well for me when i give comments or testimonials that means i meant it. specially if we havent speak for so long and i send a glittery graphics on saying hi, or how are you. maybe its just me. maybe i was really shock with that. maybe i just dont need to be fuzzy about it and just dont send her any because for her it is not necessary. but like you, you removed your comments sortie on you page. if it is not necessary for her i think she needs to do that too. thanks for the response pal.1 person likes this
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
I don't know. but you don't have to stop sending comments. for me, as long as you think am good, that's already okay. alright? have a great day
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
Well, i don't really put a lot of thought and effort on comments in any of the social networking site i am in... since most of them are just those glittery images that doesn't really convey the person's thoughts or feelings... but i think that [/b]comments are not really necessary... just keep those thoughts...[b] is somewhat rude... if you know what i mean...
If she doesn't like comments... the better not give her any...
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
i agree with you on how you explain it to me, but for me when i send comments i meant it from my heart thats why i am making an effort. if for her who is just like you is not necessary then i think i can understand that. maybe the one that took me off guard is the the one you think that was rufe... just keep your thoughts to yourself. thanks for the response
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
I will be amaze of course because mostly, we like comments. How in the earth there are people, few of them, who rather not wanted to know how people around looks at them. Well, it is there choice and we can do nothing but respect it.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
yes iza i do respect that, but it got me off guard. actually this person is a friend of mine and we are both are both singers. she is presently working abroad right now and she posted a lot of link in her page for friends and fans to see. so the way she said about keeping it to ourselves it was kinda fresh.... i think. well thats what she like then no problem. thanks for the response
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
hi there my friend. that was very sweet of you to send your friends comments or testimonials. that one friend of yours sounds kind of fresh. comments are necessary that is how we show that our friends are special to us and that we remember them even they are miles away from us or even if we are very busy. but to each it own, maybe she does not find enjoyable if people pur comments to her friendster profile.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
i think you are right when you say to each is own, and you are also right that comments and testimonials are necessary specially if that certain friend of ours is across the globe or living abroad. you have a good point i just dont understand is why she has to say that keep it to ourselves. just like you said it sounds fresh. thanks for the response
