Happy married life

The most valuable lesson that I've ever learned in this field was from my parents. They never went to bed angry with each other. If there was a problem between them they would stay up as long as it took to work out their problems. I took this bit of knowledge with me into my own marriage, and it has worked wonders. We hardly ever fight and we are able to talk it out when we have a disagreement. There isn't a lot of yelling in our home, so it is typically very peaceful.

i will keep on doing much better for our relationship and i will still avoid having argument with him. I will love my family more than my self. Not all marriage is stable so i will be proud to my self that i can handle the every test that coming to our life. I will do much better for the much better future.

Now a days we hear many cases of marriages which cannot go on for years but it was not like that before. Taking an example of my parents, the couples should not be high tempered ..atleast one should have the quality to control himself when the quarrels is going on between them. Its like if two hot minds have a war, things as well as relationships get destroyed while even one of them is quarrel avoidable and sensible then its a much better person to spend a life with. now, the guys should understand that the girls have the power on them after marriage and should have patience to control in times needed to go on with the long lasting marriages.

A perfect married life must have proper understanding, give out for each other, understand that there is another side for anything, understand that likings and conveniences are not the same for everyone, try to understand the emotions and feelings of your spouse and above all, as my grandmother told, get into the heart of your spouse through his stomach, in other words, cook well and give good food, your spouse will be yours for ever. He will spend much time at home.

Try hard to stay out of a rut; never stop learning. Do new things together, go to new places together, experience life, and evolve together. Try to avoid your marriage becoming a chore, or a bore, for that matter.

i have not that much experience to advice you. but i think everything is depend on adjustment. am i correct vathsala garu. thankyou