do you believe in online relationship

@yoyo2323 (465)
China
August 16, 2009 11:40pm CST
i have been a net warm for a long time everyday i chat with people on msn or skype like these of course i met lots of people some asked me to be his gf butwe are far from eaxh other and from the beginning we were strangers and though chatting i know about name age job etc but i still think online is not real we do not live with thi sperson and we do not ior cannot know a person just though chat so do u guys believe online relationship do you think it can work out?
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
18 Aug 09
I feel the same way. I have talked to quite a few men that are looking for girl friends. I would have to actully meet them to see if I feel anything toward them or not. To have a realtionship through the internet just seems to strange to me. I would also want to hang out or go out on a few dates to see how well we like one another first.
• China
18 Aug 09
The relationship between the Internet, we can not say absolutely believe that it is not complete does not believe it, will depend on how you to judge, and I have a friend, she is now married, have children, life is very happy, her husband loved her very much, they awareness through the Internet, and then to meet and become friends in life, and then slowly the cultivation of the feelings, and ultimately come together. But there are also many reports that have been a lot of girls to deceive users. Therefore, I can only see that their own judgments. Good luck.
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@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
18 Aug 09
for some people it works. my sister met her long time partner -- now fiance -- through chatting. but i guess it'll never works for me. i have had chat mates but i just don't have the time and i'm not in need of someone anyway -- someone to be intimate with. and well, if i want to have a relationship, i prefer him personally talking to me. hehehe..
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@judy1988 (117)
• China
17 Aug 09
of course not ,i think the boy ask you to be his gf at the beginning of a chatting is nonsense,both of you know that is impossible,and he must have many ghs on the internet,i will not chat with this kind of guy,there are things that much more than build a relationship online.
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• Lesotho
17 Aug 09
only 5% of 100 ever do work besides most people disguise on the net so its hardly ever real just an infatuation.
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@dbabcook (388)
• United States
17 Aug 09
I personally am not a fan of online dating as there are too many strange people out there. I met a couple of people years and years ago through the internet and 1 was alright but the other seemed to be kind of the stalker type and wouldn't leave me alone. I was greatful that I had never given him my address. I was able to change my phone number though.
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• Canada
22 Aug 09
My husband and I originally met on line in 2004. We met in a writing group, as we were each trying to get a book published. In time we found that we had a lot in common beyond writing, and we became friends. From there we fell in love. Now we'll celebrate our second wedding anniversary on September 6th.
• United States
17 Aug 09
i don't know if it can work out but I do believe in online relationships. Two people casn connect Anywhere. As long as both people care about each other why not? Online you get to talk I mean really talk. As long as you get to know each other , does it really matter where you two met?
@divinchris (2449)
• India
17 Aug 09
Online Relationship:Technology has made it possible for persons living around the globe to come together.It depends on what kind of relationship you need.For some people maybe they find their finacee/fiance.Basically,it all depends on how honest each person are with each other.So trustworthiness is the key in this kind of relation.We as humans are always prone to misbehave,so the percentage of honest,trustworthy people is very less.So in this situation,its high risk to have an online relationship.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
1 Oct 09
Hey, Yea I do believe in online relationships, but you must take caution. Their are countless people who their who 'pretend' they are someone else, and turn out to be some overweight person on the other end. Also, some people their are just looking for s*x, not a good relationship. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
Hi there, yah I believe on that why because I personally experienced it. I found my hubby in the net well actually my sister know him already because they are in the same country. But still we know each other through internet. Now we have our own daughter already and he was still working away from us. So still our relationship is long distance but we make it worthy. I mean you just have to communicate always and respect each other. And the most important is TRUST this is important in long distance relationship. Well goodluck to you and why dont you try it maybe it will works for you also, keep on mylotting
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
17 Aug 09
hehe u r so lucky who knows he mr'right hope i can find him no matter online or in real hehe
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
Hello friend, I do believe in online relationship. There is no matter for me if someone is apart or near. The important things is that we felt love and have a good relationship online that make us better in the future... Online relationship will work of if you consider it as love and the perspective is trust and and long lasting relationship that someday you will meet and have a family... have a great day!
@yoyo2323 (465)
• China
17 Aug 09
ok i see hehe seemsur right but someoen just play online heh who knows hehe hard to know even in reallife we can not know one well ahha havea nice day
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
Someone want to play but me my friend, i'm not. I don't want to play anybody heart. I want someone who loves for what I am and love her for what she is? I respect every women because I don't want them cry or hurt. Have a great day!
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
yes... there are a lot of ladies here in the Philippines who's fund in entering into online relationships and i don't any wrong with it... :) i believed that it really works out because some ended up as husbands and wives...
• India
17 Aug 09
i dont believe in online relationship....because you can never know how the person is as in looks vise as he may have uploaded a fake photo of himself and you can never know the nature of the person as he may fake.he may be diffrerent in front of you and different behind you..or he may be using you for someother reason..and a person may play with your feelings so its better to be on a safer side always..
@Luchie50 (51)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
hi mylotters, several of my friends and relatives got married thru net so i can say that sometimes online relationship is true and real. actually after their marriage the guy brought his wife to the states and they live happy. Perhaps not all of this relationship successful .But they were the example of a true love affairs that happened thru online relationship.Lets just believe that if were really meant for each other it will still find ways just to make it possible. Happy mylotting
@ivan2000bd (1009)
• Sweden
17 Aug 09
why not !!
@jenzai (388)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
i believe online relationship do work; it is with both of you if you will work it out,it's a question of trust, and also i have known a lot of people who have been into that, and they are quite successful on it..