1 night-stand with a hooker

@dashawk (275)
Philippines
August 16, 2009 11:48pm CST
One night the girlfriend of my cousin went to my place crying... She shared to me her problem about her boyfriend... She shared to me what happened, she said her boyfriend is having a 1 night-stand with a hooker from the city... I really don't know what to say to her, i feel guilty about what my cousin did, and feel sorry for the girl... I know some countries are just OK with the situation, but here in our country, its a disrespectful act.. What should I say to her? Or can I advice her? She said they'll breakup now, I think its a good thing, but what can you say about this guys?
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4 responses
@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
17 Aug 09
Well you can only comfort her. What's done is done. That's terrible what your cousin did. Have you talked to him? Why did he do that if he already had a girlfriend? That seems mean, right? I'd suggest to tell her what's on your mind and heart. P.
@dashawk (275)
• Philippines
18 Aug 09
yeah its really terrible and I am so ashamed of the girl of what my cousin did to her. I will tell her what's on my mind that time... Thanks callarse.. PS: Late reply, I am having problem logging in to mylot lately...
@wergild (189)
• Philippines
17 Aug 09
I think that was very disrespectful for the girl. I dont think there's any justification of the act whatsoever and with regards to your statement about certain countries having in ok, infidelity is infidelity. It doest matter your from africa or the north pole but betrayal doesnt change in degree because of geographic location. She better starts thinking if its still worth to trust her boy. Based on experience, small errors can go to big mistakes. If she still gives her boy another chance she better start thinking if a relationship can exist without trust. If she wants to have another chance at mending that broken trust she better make her boy earn that trust. You can't just betray people and just say sorry.
@dashawk (275)
• Philippines
18 Aug 09
yeah you are right, if a glass is broken, it can never be whole again (i mean trust). Thanks wergild, I think I can now talk to her about her problem and comfort her... Thanks....
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
17 Aug 09
man is man ,it is hard to ask them don't find other girls.hurt always if the man like this way.good luck to everyone.
• United States
18 Aug 09
Confront the cousin!! Ask him why the heck would he do that? Is he out of his mind? I feel pretty sorry for her also. Hookers are not only dangerous, but really dirty. I hope she is okay and the cousin can apoligize.