Had you try to introduce job for your family member?

China
August 17, 2009 6:52am CST
The nephew of my husband would like try for a job. I had try to introduce one for him last year.A very very bad memory. He is very lazy,and ask a leave several times in first 20 days.The boss ( my friend) warned him three times.But is useless. So my friend ask him back home. I am afraid this time would be bad memory as well. How to deal with?Only beging the God bless me? Had you meet the same situation before?
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3 responses
@Masssko (238)
• Estonia
17 Aug 09
Hi! If I have got the topic right, I'd never do that for my relatives unless I'm not 101% sure it would be success for both of us. I'm working hard to get my positive reputation at my work and I just can't let some lazy and unreliable relative to spoil that for me. So I', quite keen on that question and try not to help people I'm not sure in. As well i never ask for that kind of help, If I'm not sure in my own ability to manage the job.
• China
17 Aug 09
I am afraid I would loss the positive reputation as well. But it is very hard to refuse.
@Masssko (238)
• Estonia
17 Aug 09
Hope You can handle it! Good luck!
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
17 Aug 09
My husband had a job he worked at for many years and his brother needed a job do my husband got him hired. After only three days he quit. Now my husband will not recomend any one else for a job. He says it is embarassing when they are lazy and then quit. I don't blame him.
• China
17 Aug 09
I had quarrel sereval times for my husband as his lazy nephew. But he is try to partial his nephew always.I fall into the very bad situation.
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
17 Aug 09
I don't think it's a good idea to introduce him for another job. It seems like he's lazy and taking things for granted. He got the job easily and don't know how to appreciate your kindness. It's better for him to search the job himself. If he can realize how some people are desperate to have a job but have no success, he probably can put on more effort to his work.
• China
17 Aug 09
He had try to open a shop with his friends for 3 month. But the result is very bad:They had earn some money first,but they try to use the money extravagant.They had use out of the money they took and earned in three month.And he was come back home rest for several month already. I inform my husband that if his nephew could lost job again,I would let his nephew any more,just back home.No any chance any more form now on.