What will you do if you caught your spouse sleeping with your friend?

August 17, 2009 1:07pm CST
Cheating on one's spouse or mate is now more than ever rampant in our day and has inflicted both psychological, emotional & physical injuries to those concerned.
6 responses
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
18 Aug 09
I'd hope that I would be strong enough to walk awy with my pride and dignity, but knowing myself as I do, I would probably yell and scream, and want to know why. I would have to think long and hard to decide whether or not I would stay or leave him. I would probably end up leaving because frompast experience, I will say, normally, if it happens once in a relationship, it will happen again. As far as the "friend" is concerned, well, she wouldn't be much of a friend if she was in bed with my husband, now would she? I could walk away from a "friend" like that easier than I could my marriage.
• United States
18 Aug 09
I would just ditch them both. You cannot trust a cheater or a friend who will betray you.
@daphne009 (301)
• United States
17 Aug 09
Try counseling to get through it with him and if that didn't work, divorce. I would be afraid that once a cheat, always a cheat. It would be hard to gain his trust back.
• United States
17 Aug 09
Oh hell no I have nto caught them but the beep person had the nerve too tell me in my face she sleep with him. I stopped talking oto her forever and by what i hear hahaha she regrets it but too late..
• Canada
17 Aug 09
Kick them and their stuff out of my house.
• India
17 Aug 09
Well, depends on the mood. Either somebody is gonna get killed or gets forgiven.