Have you ever found yourself in a very tough situation?

@Citychic (4067)
United States
August 18, 2009 11:11am CST
Hey friends, I would like to know if you've ever found yourself in a really tough situation at some point in your life and you didn't know what to do or which way to turn? If so what did you do to help you to be able to find clear direction. I look forward to hearing what each one of you have to say, thanks for responding! happy mylot!
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ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
18 Aug 09
hello citychic! well the first thing that came to my mind upon reading your discussion is the time when i m about to get married...hmmm okay, i got engaged that time by the month of June, and wedding is set by December of that year...tough situation came when i meet this guy and i think i fall on him! huh! that time, i want to call the wedding off, i think i am ready that time to broke up with my boyfriend...but i just can't do that...coz i've been with this man for about 5 years and he has been good to me...but the new guy, i really feel that i love him even for the short time that we have met...so that time , i really have to decide...and i find it really tough coz whatever my decision will be is something i know would be life changing...and i know that someone will be hurt including me... that situation gives me many sleepless nights and headaches and heartaches! huh! just thankful that my mom is there to support me, to guide me, to give me advises...and she really play a big part on that situation in my life...she explains me both sides and the consequences that i might face after making decisions...and she told me to pray...hehehe well i guess my mom really helps me find the clear direction and i am so happy that i ended up in a better decision... have a nice day citychic...you look nice in your avatar...
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Citychic
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
18 Aug 09
Hello Ckyer, thank you for the compliment on my avatar. You are right, the situation that you were dealing with was a very tough one. But you were so lucky to have had your mother there to help you to see the consequences of your choices and actions. Unfortunately for me I've never been able to really talk with either or my parents concerning matters of the heart. So I must make the best decision from what few tools that I have to work with. Which comes down to experience, which in this case means past behavior of the individual. Anyhow I can relate to what you are saying although my situation is a little bit different. Luckily for me, I don't have two guys that I have to choose against right now. But I would like for my life to be more straightened out, just in case my mr. right should happen to show up on my doorstep, hee hee hee. Oh well, we just never can tell. Anyhow Good luck with your life Ckyera, I wish you only love and happiness. God bless you and thanks for sharing, it was a very wonderful comment And certainly worthy of reading!
ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
18 Aug 09
thanks also citychic! well i guess i am lucky on this part, that i can talk to my mom about heart matters! actually i don't really want to tell her about that before, but she noticed my sadness and she told me that if i want to talk about it just tell her...and that time i can't deny anymore coz it really shows...i am very transparent and my mom knows me well...huh! i remeber how much i cry that time in front of my mom and she evn cries with me...but after she laugh on me! hahaha and tell me that i can do it1 hehehe...so i am really thankful to her...what just happen is that wedding date is just moved to January instead of December...hehehe i think i am foolish that time to almost ruin my relationship with my boyfriend just for a guy that i just met... well with you, even if you don't have parents to talked to about love matters, at least you have experiences to help you decide and i think you have good disposition in your life...unlike me at that time that i don't know much about life even if im already 23 that time...hehehe well i wish that you could find your mr. right and be successful in straightening out your life... may you always have a wonderful day and always be happy! more blessings for you ms citychic!