Ur Married and Find the LOVE of your LIFE..What do you DO?
By April
@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
United States
August 19, 2009 12:18am CST
So i was watching hes just not into you..which is a pretty cool movie and defff aobove all a chick flick which i usually dotn watch but this is funny if yoru a woman and this part that i just saw got me thinking that its a great thread..so here it is..Say YOu have been married 10 years to someone thats very nice..but one day you meet someone and get to know them as friends and turns out that they are the love of your life..what do you do? leave your spouse and go for it..or just stay content in your marriage? if your dating someone you can answer to..:) I think its a super hard question..im not married and am waiting for the one that lifts me away..but if i foudn someone and married..yet found teh love of my life which my whole life i been looking for..i think id leave my spouse and be happy for ever...Sooooo what about you guys?
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@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
19 Aug 09
Interesting question. If I get married, I am hoping that person would be the love of my life and not just someone to hangout with until "Mr.Right" comes along. Houw would one know that this new found love is not going to turn out to be "Mr.Wrong" after giving up husband or wife. "A bird in the hand is better than the one in the bush,"if you will. The grass always seems green on the other side of the fence until you travel to the other side. In other words, I would not give up on my marriage, unless I am already on the way to divorce court, for someone I barely know.
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@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
19 Aug 09
Im not saying just someone you meet and then think hes the one..Im saying you meet him and get to know him for awhile and relize that he is the love of your life..and say things were just ok with your husband and the other man was everything u ever wanted in a man..then what would you do?
@lordz00 (20)
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21 Aug 09
wow this is where the song "oh it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along". This is pretty hard especially if a lot of people are involve (if you've got kids). I haven't been married yet and i did fell in love already so i guess i could try and answer this. All my life i always wanted to love someone with all of me, i could never stay in a relationship where i don't really love the person, apart from my teenage years where i had a lot of fling. I gues when the time comes then i met someone whilst i'm married and fell in love with that person, i guess i'd leave my wife. I would rather leave her than cheat on her, because admit it, loving someone doesn't make you wrong, it is what you do out of love that makes you wrong. Knowing my self, i cannot stop my self from loving and seeing someone whom i really like. Plus i always have in mind that before you fall in love, you need to fall out of love first. So it means im falling out of love already that is why i fell in love with another person. so i will definitely go with her :D
