Adding people as friends..

@jugsjugs (12967)
August 19, 2009 10:23am CST
if you get a friend request do you just except them or do you ask them why they have added them if you do not know who they are? I have 900 friends and i know at least 700 how about you?
13 responses
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
21 Aug 09
I am willing to add people on my friends list here without any question. Because I know in the long run we will be helping each other here. By responding to their discussions and them responding to my discussions. I don't have any priority or anything like that on here on whether or not they will be added to my friends list. I don't have very many people on my list but I only know one person on my list here for now. Because she has been my friend before even being apart of mylot.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Oh I just noticed this was for facebook and not mylot. Lol sorry. On facebook, I don't approve everyone on there. I only approve people I know and that was for mainly people that I have known from school and my family that's about it.
@doormouse (4599)
20 Aug 09
i accept all friend requests,don't know why,maybe coz i don't want to offend anyone by turning them down,or coz i'm feeling in a good mood,,who knows,,maybe i just like the idea of feeling popular,, hahaha
@doormouse (4599)
20 Aug 09
i shouldn't have answered that coz i'm not on facebook,thought you were talking bout mylot,,,sorry
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
20 Aug 09
I accept anyone. Doesn't matter if I know them or not, their age or where they live. I do have all email notifications turned on so I get a ton of discussions sent to me each day. No way I can respond to all of them. I try real hard to keep up with a selected few but can't always manage that one either.
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
I add them all, or are we talking about Mylot friends or from different social network site. Here in Mylot when I received an invitation, I do not have second thoughts I approved them all. I don't care if they will just add me for referral because they can be a possible referral to me too! and sometimes those people who add me are those not in my friendlist but I responded on there discussion which I think they appreciate.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
24 Aug 09
When someone ask to become a friend I always accept them. I don't think it a problem. What gets me is if I ask to be a friend and I get no response. Then I wonder why what did I do?
• India
19 Aug 09
As this is primarily a social networking site ,so our main objective is to make new friends,share our experiences and views.So theres no point of asking questions like who are you,or do i really know you.Once we add them as our friend we have a good chance to know them at least. theres no point of refusing a friend request just because you don't know that guy.
• United States
19 Aug 09
suparnodatta....WOW..Very well put. I like the way you think. Im checking now to see if you are on my list. If not then look for the invite. I will would be honored to have you as a friend. Keep smiling.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I go to their profile and see who they are and what they have submitted in the way of responses and discussions. Most of the time I accept them after that. I don't really know many of my friends.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
19 Aug 09
hi jugsjugs, i have more than two hundred friends,i could not understand your question know mylot people,you can know those friends through their profiles,i am also doing the same,what about you,have a nice day
@russso (1693)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
I know all of my friends in Facebook. I don't accept friend requests from people I don't know. I'm really very careful with this social networking site. I have friends whose photos were used by someone - stalker or stranger, we don't know. Her photos were used in another social networking site. It's always best and safest to accept requests from people you know.
@Bradpete (822)
• Philippines
19 Aug 09
It is good like you said in Facebook, Myspace, Friendster, Tagged, Frenzone, Mylot and more. Some they have 3,000 to 5,000 friends. And have 2-3 account. Most of famous and Gorgeous have tons of friends.
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
19 Aug 09
Im still kinda of new here on mylot. I just recently started adding friends. You are on my friends list and I have the notify turned on. I choose my friends by the way their numbers look. I know that might not be fair to some but I have had a good turnout so far. I haven't had one that has been rude or ignored me. Maybe my interness is leading my path. HAHA. You keep posting and I will keep watching for your discussions. Thanks for accepting my friends request.
@louren007 (122)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
In my case, I just simply accept friend's requests 'coz it will also increase members in Mafia Wars and Restaurant City. Ahehehe...
• Australia
19 Aug 09
Hi there. I use to have facebook and at one point I had over 400 friends but most of them were just people from my school and i actually only talked about 50 of them. i think its stupid that people add you to facebook if there arent even your friend or have not intentions of ever talking to you. I call those people friend collectors. I just dont see how you can have like 100 friends on facebook because no one has 100 friends on real life so what the point. I ended up deleting everyone I didnt talk to and if I would get a new friend request of someone I wasnt actually friends with I would deny them and ask them why the add me. Most of them would never answer. Thanks for this question...its a good one definitely!!!