Do you hide when you cry?

@Abhii88 (214)
India
August 19, 2009 12:34pm CST
When you get emotional do you burst out in front of anyone or you get yourself alone first then you let it out? Besides what was the last time you cried and for what reason?
7 responses
@coolcat123 (4391)
• India
21 Aug 09
I cannot control my tears anywhere, whether its school, college or home. If its for a personal reason when i do cry alone i.e when i want myself to be away and dont want anyone to know that i am crying. yesterday itself , i cried as i can never control my tears and even for small reasons, the tears fell.i dont know how to control it and many times i do feel bed due to this quality of mine.
@DCLehnsherr (1041)
20 Aug 09
If I ever start crying in front of someone I become violent because I get so angry at myself for showing that weakness, I also end up feeling really ashamed too, so if I can avoid doing so I never cry in front of people. Whenever I cried in front of my counsellor though I could only manage a few seconds because that anger would kick in and the tears would just dry up. It is similar to when I am alone too, my sense of humour kicks in and I end up smiling too much to manage crying, even if at that moment I think crying is the best thing for my mind. As for the last time I cried, that would probably be about a month ago maybe, things have been pretty good recently so there has been no really need to recently lol! Dranz PS: How come you never answer your own questions?
• United States
19 Aug 09
i don't like people seeing my cry out all it makes me feel wake i will try my best to hide it.
@mtvmtv (600)
• India
19 Aug 09
I think not me only but majority of people will prefer darkness for that purpose.Because we all know that generally others are not interested in you sorrows.They would have their own.So we must share our happiness with others to cheer up them.
• United States
19 Aug 09
No, but I seldom cry now. when I was a boy ,I cried when I could not bear my tears. I didn't care about what they are thinking, and didn't feel embarrassed.
@reyasmi (125)
• India
19 Aug 09
Hai... I am not interested in crying in front of others. Always I used to hide from people when I am sad or feel to cry.... Regards, Reyas
@malpoa (1218)
• India
19 Aug 09
I do not burst out cryig infront of anyone. I dislike not so close people seeing me crying or be in pain. I try to conceal all possible sad emotions. Now even I try not to cry infront of my mother ans disters. Only my husband sees me crying. I am a very emotional person and at times it becomes very difficult to conceal. last time I cried was when my mother in law passed away...It was a very unexpected incident and it left us shattered.