friendship or lovers??

Philippines
August 19, 2009 10:49pm CST
hey friends.. how's your day?? me i'm very fine. do you have a friends who become you lover? i experienced to have many friends before and soon some of my guy friends want me to become their girlfriend, but for me once i love him as a friend i would stick to it because for me is harder to be friends if you get lover. what do you think of it?? do you prefer to choose your friends to be your lover or vice versa??
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@Hatley (164214)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Aug 09
hi ruby how could you love someone if you really did not like him? my husband was my best friend and my lover and of course my husband. how could one trust a person whom you disliked when you made love? wouldnt that be very frightening? When you are married best friends you have someone who is' always in your corner no matter what and you are in his corner being there for you and lovingyou. A great comgo.
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
His right...be each others bestfriend. My husband is my bestfriend. If we fight as a couple i still come to him and talk in a friendly manner. Friends just come and go in our life...and its hard find good friends. Falling in love with friends is a commom thing..since u spend so much time with friends and u soon see the things u looking for a lover.
@mastinet (467)
• India
20 Aug 09
even my friends wife is once his best friends and their friendship continued for more than 10 long years
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
Thank you My friends for responding and for sharing. i agree to all of you, me and my husband is now best friend too. For almost 3 years together we really know each other well and we both growing. Happy mylotting!!
@meapas (2433)
• India
20 Aug 09
It is better to be good friends. Rest is all very risky proposition. So why trade on to danger path?
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@mastinet (467)
• India
20 Aug 09
hello meapas, what risky proposition you are talking about? Being a lover who was once your best friend can not be risky in any ways dear.
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
Yes you are right, its very risky when your friend become your lover unless you both destined to be with each other forever as a lovers. thank you for responding. happy mylotting!!
@mastinet (467)
• India
20 Aug 09
I donot forsee any problem in getting involved in a love relationship with your friend. A best friend can be a best choice for being a lover as you know much about your best friend and he / she can be more comfortable to you at the position of lover. Love and friendship are rather different things but if can be combined together can bear fruitful results.
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• Philippines
22 Aug 09
I know and i got your point my friend. maybe its case to case basis that your best friend become your lover with no problem to both of you. But for me once i left and i lost my love to someone i don't want to be with him again. so I'd rather to be friends to my best friend than to be his lover. thank you for responding.. happy mylotting.
@prinzcy (5036)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 09
I would prefer my best friend to remain as my best friend. If we change that relationship, everything will never be the same again. Once he start being a lover, we will have different view on each other. Not to mention, if we break up, I will never want to see his face again (regardless of the reason why we break up) It's better to remain friend, unless both of us are ready to accept the challange of the new status.
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
We have the SAME point of view to our friends. Thank you for responding and also in sharing your thoughts. Good Day!! Happy Mylotting.
@hanggoro (19)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 09
i choose that my friend just to be my friend
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
Thank you for responding. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Happy mylotting.