Do you have past relationships which you wished you never had?

@laydee (12811)
Philippines
August 20, 2009 8:36am CST
Regrets are always in the end, but could you say that once or twice in your lifetime, you regretted having to have that type of relationship and wished you never got in it in the first place?
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@tintukm (1083)
• India
1 Sep 09
When i start a relationship I take along time not just to know the other person's whereabouts but about him/her as a person as such,keeping close only lets this happen.When a person shows his anger he/she comes of to his/her real skin,not always but most of the time.I have never thought that i made a bad choice of a person but at times fast and quick relationships do wander without boundaries.Past relations up till now going in a better way than one could think of , I adore all my relations,hoping everything remains as smooth as it is.
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@laydee (12811)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
How long was the longest time you thought about a potential relationship?
@tintukm (1083)
• India
4 Sep 09
The long time for a long potential relationship depends actually on the kind of a person one meets.The last time when I made a friend it was mostly done with two or three meetings I suppose,in college life too the relations aren't meant to be made with everyone in my case.
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• Philippines
20 Aug 09
NOt really, but there was this one partner during the Junior Senior Prom that i wish i never had.i met her during the eye ball program for both school for girls and boys. back then my school was only for boys. we went to their school to have the program, after that she talked to me..but i didn't realize that was it..until i invited her to dance, that's when..i realized I've been used, and been teased...
@laydee (12811)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
Oh it was just for fun??
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• Philippines
25 Aug 09
i don't know and probably don't care, cause i've been fooled all along.
@patofgold23 (5075)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
o yeah!!! my son's dad!!! he's a complete idiot and a jerk... he was my first boyfriend, my first kiss...the first guy who ever held my hand...the first guy who ever put his arms around me..the first guy i ever ate out with...the first guy i ever watched movie with............ .....and he forced me to have s*x with him...I was 16 that time -------- but I loved him and din't tell my mom and even my bestfriend... when I got pregnant --- he went out telling everybody he's not the father of my kid,.. we never spoke again. and I raised my son alone. he showed up when my son was 6 yeard old, saying he misses HIS son.... I don't know but I forgave him anyway... I still don't like him that much though... my son't now 14years old... and doesn't even miss him. i never told him what a stupid moron his dad is, but i guess he can feel it...he's a teen-ager and a smart kid.... I wish I never met that idiot... but then, I wouldn't have my son
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@laydee (12811)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
Whoah, that's tough.
@Citychic (4071)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Oh yes, there are several that I wished I had never gotten into in the first place. But each one was there to teach me something, so I wound up learning from them. If it was important enough to me then I still stay in touch today but if it wasn't important enough I try to leave it in the past and move on as best as I possibly can. happy mylot!
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• India
24 Aug 09
I am lucky to have no such relationship until now. I even take care not to get into relationships which might lead to regretting in the later parts of my life. Most people get into relationships which they shouldn't have in the first place mainly because they feel lonely. They try to get rid of this loneliness by sharing their time with someone whom they think would be great to spend time with. But unfortunately some people take undue advantage of such people and leave them in more dreadful situation before they started this relationship. I think we must keep ourselves busy with something so that we do not get time for loneliness. Socializing is one of the most important parts of our life which can keep us active all the time and give no chance for regretting in later parts of our lives.
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@UK_Shree (3604)
20 Aug 09
Yes I do, but I don't dwell on it too much as everything you do in your lifetime, whether you regret it or not, shapes the person you are now, and I think that we do learn from every little thing and experience that we go through, good or bad. I do look back sometimes and wonder why I did certain things, but it's okay, because I know I wouldn't do them again.
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• United States
20 Aug 09
My last relationship lasted almost two years and after when we broke up i wish i was never in that relationship as i had found out so much stuff he did that his friends told me. It was unreal to really have a life life he was living and to always lie like he did was just not normal at all. I would believe him that he was going to do what he said he was going to do but then i would see pictures either on facebook or myspace and i got the real idea that he wasn't were he said he was and that i would ask him and he would say that was before we were together or some ridiculous lie like that. Liers and cheaters will never change and always be the same so be careful out their dating like me.
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
we do have regrets.I,for one,have some relationships that I do regret.but rather than thinking about it negatively,I think of them as lessons learned.my regrets taught me a lot about myself.they taught me about what I really want in my life.
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