What if you were born into another religion?

@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
August 20, 2009 5:29pm CST
I know that there are many people who believe that their religion is the only one that's right, but let's imagine for a moment that you were born into another. If you are a devout Muslim now, do you think that you might be a sincere Christian if born into a Christian family? In the same way if you are a devout Christian, would you then be a fervent Muslim? The same can of course, be said of all other religions. That which we are taught in the early years of our life have such a big impact on the rest of our life that it is often very difficult to think any other way.Is there really any great difference between someone who was taught that the Bible was true and someone who was told the same about the Koren? If everyone gave serious consideration to this thought perhaps we would all see things in a different light.
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26 responses
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
20 Aug 09
I walked away from the religion I was born into & found my own. If the one I was born into next time didn't fit I'd do the same.
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@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 09
Hi uath13, you have my 100% support here. I personally do not like to impose or be imposed to embrace any religion which is not my choice. It's good to be exposed to different religions and then decide on one that suits you well. People have made fun of me when I told them that I chose Buddhism because it suits me. I suppose they think they're more religious than others. Well, it's their opinions, anyway. Cheers!
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi uath, Thanks for commenting and I see nothing wrong with that as long as one respects the opinion of others. On a global scale though, I think the majority stick with the religion that they are born into.Blessings.
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Often because there's a form of brainwashing involved. When it's repeated for years starting at childhood it's going to kinda stick.
• Sri Lanka
21 Aug 09
If i were born in another religion i will keep its words and i will work obediently according to what has said to be done.But luckily i am a Buddhist right now and iam really happy about it.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi yohananu, Thank you for commenting and I feel that's what the majority would do. I'm also pleased to know that you are happy with your present faith. Blessings.
• Sri Lanka
22 Aug 09
Thank you for your comments.I am a true Buddhist.I have a good faith in Buddhism and it is a practical religion and it has the freedom of religion.I really feel that it is true.When we follow it beyond i will like to know many things.
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
20 Aug 09
I have know of many people changing their religion. I was a born and raised catholic and I changed my religion twice already. It's just a matter of preference and mainly finding a religion you feel comfortable with. That's just my opinion of course.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi Grandmaof2, As long as one respects other belief systems, I think it's fine to be where you are comfortable. Although, it may not be as true in the western world as elsewhere, I believe most people stay in the religion in which they were born. Thank you for commenting. Blessings.
@4mymak (1793)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 09
very interesting question... reminds me of a phrase i always hear preached to us - "Be very thankful that you are born into this religion.." (i prefer not to mention what religion that is).. i truly do not know how things would be if i was ever born into a another religion.. but since young i have always been curious about other cultures and religion - being in a multiracial+ multi-religious country - i have been 'exposed' to so many religions - i've gone to school with muslims, hindus, buddhists, christians.. and i have always been curious as to how different these 'religions' are to one another.. and i was never shy to ask, i also did my own readings.. i watch documentaries on topics like this... and actually after doing all that..(and still doing that now..) ilearn to be more 'appreciative' and more thankful for my religion.. and also have more understanding of the other religion.. what i learn of the other religion may not make much sense to me, totally different from that i believe - but i think we should always respect that, and not condemn them - i believe God is the only One who has the right to judge or condemn His creatures.. He's given us the will and mind to choose.. so even if you're born into another religion - we should always try to 'learn' from the others - see how are we different.. seek the truth / the path that you yourself believe you should follow, and along the way if you can convince others to come with you.. fine.. if not, let them have their own choices..
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi 4mymak, Thank you for that response and I'm inclined to agree with you. I strongly believe that we should respect all and condemn no one. Personally, I don't think that it matters at all because I believe we are all one. I would just like to see everyone get along so that we can make the world a better place for everyone. Blessings.
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@kilani123 (864)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Aug 09
Iam a Muslim , i diverted to atheism, but decided to to go deeper in islam before i divert , and then i have convinced my self that ISLAM is my right path to go into
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi kilani, Thank you for your comment. I respect all belief systems and would like to see everyone do the same. I believe that life on this planet would be much better for everyone. Blessings.
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• United States
20 Aug 09
I don't think in terms of religion I think it's all about whats in the heart, all about God and if you believe in him. I do believe in being saved and that, that comes from believing in God and having him in your heart. I think any person can b saved no matter what their religion is as long as God is their lord and savior. Ask and yea shall receive~~ Liz
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi dasiejanie, You are right, it is not about religion, it is about loving one another, about compassion and not judging or condemning others. It's about making this world a better place for everyone. Thanks for your comment. Blessings.
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@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
I agree that if you believe that you can't be happy and you are not contented with your religion I think you need to change your religion. I think you have a right to change what you believe in without dictating by your family. I watched a short movie about a guy whose family is a muslim when he went to the US he change his religion to Christian without telling his family. When he came back again to his country he never tell it to his family until his mother discover that he has a bible. His father got angry and disinherited him. I think if you don't find God in your religion it's the time to find another religion that it is suits for you. In my opinion religions are all the same and it is up to you wheather you change or not.
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
21 Aug 09
True. I have thought about this before. My conclusion is that if I would have been born in an other religion, I would have believed it was true. I think if there is a God as we see Him, He has a reason for all these different religions. He maybe wants us to learn how to love one another unconditionally. After all, if we all had the same believes, wouldn't life be boring? This way we can learn how to really respect and love one another. I think you are so right. If everyone gave serious consideration to this thought, things would be seen in a different light.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
22 Aug 09
Hi margajoe, Thank for commenting and we certainly think alike, at least when it comes to religion. Blessings.
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
3 Sep 09
Thank-you very much for BR,
• United States
23 Aug 09
No matter what I was taught as a child, I hope I'd have enough intelligence to look at the evidence of that religion to see if it's reasonable to believe in it. If it wasn't reasonable, I hope I'd search for the truth.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Aug 09
Hi 6precious, Thank you for commenting. I find that the majority never stray from what they were taught as a child, also truth has many different faces. Blessings.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 Aug 09
I a Muslim, despite growing in my family is not Muslim. my parents are Christians. my parents did not force the children to follow the same religion with them. they only give advice to adhere to the religion I choose. kindergarten, my school in the Catholic school. Primary school, my school in the public schools. first secondary school, my school in Christian schools. I then decided to schools in the Islamic schools. Religion can not be imposed, every person has the right to choose religion.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
22 Aug 09
Hi indahfth, Your parents are wiser than most and I think that they should be congratulated. I've never really understood why most parents are so adamant that their children follow their religion but I guess it has to be that they don't have an open mind when it comes to religion. I would like to see everyone think as your parents and stop brainwashing their children when they are too young to understand. I fully belief that it is the cause of much trouble in the world. People should choose their religion as adults and without interference from family. Blessings.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 09
I agree with you, I choose the religion when I was about age 17 years. I have studied several religions, and finally I choose a religion according to my heart, without any influence by anyone.
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
25 Aug 09
If I were born into - and not converted to(I will not allow myself to be converted, for me this is the greatest sacrilege)- another religion, I would just be as faithful a follower of that religion as I am today of Sanatana Dharma. This is because I take it that God in His Infinite Wisdom has chosen that path for me. IMO opinion no religion is either better or superior to another. There cannot be even one religion that is simply the best. Not only this.Suppose, I was born into a religion, let's say like today I am an SD-ite(Hinduism). Let's say I was lost to my parents as a child, even before I could be indoctrinated into SD's principles,and I was picked up by say, a Muslim couple and raised as one. I would grow into a young man as a devout Muslim because my foster parents had taught me that. And suppose that suddenly I come to know my roots, without a shade of doubt. Even in such a sitauation I would continue as a devout Muslim and seek deliverance as a Muslim. What could at best happen of this knowledge of my original religion, would be I might be sort of tolerant to this other "faith" of my "birth". This is again for the same reason that I hold God as the ONLY decision maker of where I must be!
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
26 Aug 09
Hi GADHISUNU, I like your ideas very much and that is much like I feel as well. Respect for all is what is needed. I feel that if a person wishes to convert to another religion, that is their choice as long as they are not trying to convert others. I believe that if all people thought this way, the world would be a much better place. Thank you for commenting. Blessings.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
20 Aug 09
I agree with you. We do not choose the religion of birth. But I think, all religions teach about virtue. So, it may not need to choose. That behavior is important.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi hsofyan, Thank you for your comment. I would like to see people of all religions come to realize that we are all one and starting working together for the good of all. Blessings.
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@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
21 Aug 09
That's right. I also want that. GBU
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
23 Aug 09
I would likely believe differently if I was raise with different views, sure. That doesn't mean I'd be right if I was raised with different views, nor wrong for the views I was raised with. Truth isn't determined by whether you are devout or your family heritage.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Aug 09
Hi andy, Thank you for you comment. I don't believe that right and wrong has much to do with religion anyway, it's all about how we live. Blessings.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
2 Sep 09
Hi again andy, I meant it to mean that I don't think there is one right or a wrong religion. There is much good in all religions if we look for it. Blessings.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
25 Aug 09
That's an interesting statement. If it isn't about right and wrong, then what difference does it make how you live?
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• United States
31 Aug 09
I think that your "religion" should be your choice. I don't see Christianity as a religion like some people. I see it as a relationship. Because I talk to my God. I know My God. I know that in China whatever "religion" your family is that is what you must be fro your entire life. If they're atheist then you must be atheist. It's very sad that "religion" puts such a stress on people. God Bless.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
31 Aug 09
Hi eternal_ink, I'm very happy that you have found what works for you, and I agree that everyone should be free to choose. I have always been one to question and have come to the conclusion that no one answer works for everyone. Thank you for commenting. Blessings.
• Indonesia
3 Sep 09
If i born to be a muslim or buddhist, i will still be caught by Jesus. He caught me since i was in my mom's womb. And i'm glad Jesus did that, cause i love Jesus too.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
3 Sep 09
Hi sushisarah, Thank you for your response. Blessings.
• Indonesia
6 Sep 09
I think Koran and Holy Bible are not friends, lol. In Koran there are some verses urged the readers to assassinate the paganists or whoever who disagreed with their religion. I had read it when i was a subscriber at a site divided free christian magazine. But Holy Bible is sweet, more about God's natures when Jesus was still on earth before lifted up to heaven. It's being a great sample for us to be more like Jesus. And if you know that Koran needs roasted animal, goat. Christian need not, Christ Himself sacrificed Himself for us so we are free. We are not bound in tradition.
• United States
22 Aug 09
Awesome topic. I was not born into the religion I am today so I don't think it would have made much difference. I was raised catholic and then joined the Baha'i Faith later in life. They are very different so although catholicism has definitely influenced my belief system in some ways there are many other factors. You bring up a really interesting point though. There are many people who have only experienced one religion and have not looked into others because they are so sure their religion is right. And I believe they are right, their religion is right but so are all the others. Every individual is unique and thus has a different spiritual path that works for them, but I believe all religions lead to truth. Of course I would still encourage someone who has only experienced one religion to research others but if they feel their religion is the only one that works for them, that is their path and I would not interfere. I find all religions so fascinating, I always wanted to study other religions so I found a religion that encourages its followers to investigate all the religions because all of them are true. But if someone else only believes one religion is true that is their choice.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
23 Aug 09
Hi runner, Thank you for responding and I enjoyed reading your comments. I know a little about the Baha'i Faith and always thought of it as being very open minded and you have confirmed that. Blessings.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Well, I'm really not very knowledgeable about the Muslim religion ,but my opinion is that any religion can be harmful if we become fanatics. Love and tolerance should be the number 1 religion.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
22 Aug 09
Hi Mirita, Thank you for commenting and I couldn't agree more. Blessings.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
21 Aug 09
Dear friend, I could judge anything now, but I hope mostly I would practice that religion is taught to me. May be any religious guidance I get from others as I practice my present religion. May the religion I get more attached is practiced. Family has a prominent in that. Moreover I hope I would be much of God fearing if I practice the better of side of the religions.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi SHAMRACK, Thank you for commenting and I agree that family has a big part to play here and I think that many people would follow what they were taught, although that is changing more and more today. Blessings.
@iakulchen (615)
• Singapore
21 Aug 09
I think it depends on the individual. To me, religion is a way of life, a set of beliefs by which I adher to. I question things a lot, and ask whether my own personal philosophy clashes with that of a religion. I was brought up a Buddhist of the Pure Land tradition, and used to think there was only one type of Buddhlism, but I have since moved on, and technically I'm now "An atheist with Buddhist leanings"
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi iakulchen, Thank you for your comment. I too think of religion as a way of life and like what I know of Buddhist teachings but I don't think I could ever be an atheist, although I respect the right of everyone top believe as they choose. Blessings.
@faridii (79)
• Pakistan
21 Aug 09
In my country, we take the religion of our families. We can say that we are born to our religion. It is rare to choose one's religion. In my society, it is not acceptable to choose your own religion different from your family. However, there are some conditions were you can change your religion, such as when you get married to a person with another religion. In addition, in my country the father dictates the religion of the family.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi faridii, Thank you for your comment and I understand, I do however, believe that we should respect all religious beliefs. Blessings.
• India
21 Aug 09
well i love my religion and i embrace it with full faith ...i wudnt even dream of anyother religion ....im thankfull to my god that im born in this relion ....
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Aug 09
Hi angelparis, I can understand what you are saying and I respect that, my thought is that we have to realize that most other people feel the same way. It's nice that you are happy where you are but I think that's important that we respect other belief systems. Thank you for commenting. Blessings.
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