how to have a life after death of love one

Philippines
August 20, 2009 10:50pm CST
been so long since i posted here...because my father just passed away last June 18...because of lung cancer..and since he was diagnosed with cancer last march, we battled hard for it but we lost... we are trying to cope for the lost of my father..trying to go back to our normal life...hope we can soon.. To those who experience the same, how did you cope for the lost of your love ones???
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@careguarden (5673)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. I've experienced losing someone who's part of my family. And it's really difficult to start, to put back the pieces into its place and begin. It takes us for a long time to get used each day without the person, without his smile,his voice and his touch. As for me, everyday brought me tears, every place reminds me of him, even the air that I breath brings back his memory. Those were quite tough days of our life. To get through with it, I often tried to go out with friends. I tried not to put space in my time. I often talked and laugh with friends. Travel to places and listen to my friends problems and sometimes help them. Few days,months and years that passed her scents and face began to fade, but still the memories still clear, then later I'd just able to let it go. I don't exactly know when it happened, all I know is just little by little he just fade away. Time will only tell. I hope you and your family will able to get through and let it go. I'm sure it will happen, I know someday soon. Have a great day!
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
thanks for sharing... it help a lot :-)