Would you confess to your partner?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
August 22, 2009 6:06am CST
Would you confess to your partner that you've slept with someone? Let's just say it was just one time. Would you dare do it? or Would you rather just forget about it - What they don't know won't hurt them.
4 responses
• India
24 Aug 09
Well, I haven't done anything like this and therefore I wont fear to tell the truth. Moreover, if both have done it there is no need to explain the truth and both will understand each other as far as both are honest with one another.
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@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
24 Aug 09
Hi Laydee, if it was just a one time thing I wouldnt say anything, as it happened you cant do anything to change it. All you can do is to make sure it doesnt happen again. I think in the future, if your tempted to do such things, you should stay away from the places where you might meet someone like this. Hugs, Tianna
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
22 Aug 09
I believe in any relationship there has to be honesty and trust, without them the integral building blocks of a relationship, the relationship will crumble and die. There has to be complete trust on both sides, and if you have slept with someone else then you are not respecting your partner or the relationship! You also have to think how you would feel if your partner had done the same, slept with someone, how would You feel, would you want them to admit to it or would you rather not know? I guess it depends on the person, myself I wouldn't sleep around if I was with someone I truly loved.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
22 Aug 09
I dont think I would. Let me explain... I am really in love with my man. We have been together for five years and he is my night in shining armor. Dont get me wrong we have a lot of issues. At the end of the day its all nothing compared to my love for him. I dont NEED to sleep with anyone right now. I have all I need. If it was something before him, I definitely wouldnt tell him. It is true what he dont know wont hurt him. However, I dont think its fair for me to hurt him about things that happened before him. I wouldnt or should I say havent done anything as of yet to tell. If I did, I wouldnt tell either. NO need to break what is working so nicely. dl
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