are you afraid to sleep alone?

@acie_21 (5633)
Philippines
August 23, 2009 4:19am CST
everytime my husband leaves to work at 4 or 5am in the morning i cant able to sleep alone..i dont know why..seems that i feel scared or something.. when he leaves at 4am i can only go to sleep when its 6am heheheh! i hate it when it happens that i cant able to go back to sleep directly.. i always cover my face with a pillow or a blanket!ahhhhhhh! i cant breathe!and its to hot!hehheeh!funny me... im a scaredy cat! sometimes i can sleep directly when im too tired of what im doing..lol! how about you? are you like me?
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29 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
24 Aug 09
haha =D Maybe u can too used to having your hubby by your side, and that he gives u a sense of security, protecting u from danger.. haha =D Or perphaps, u are still young after all, and so all the more, u crave for his protection.. hehe ^_^ I'm never afraid of sleeping alone, because it's something normal to me.. lol =D PLus, i can be a sound sleeper as well as being a light sleeper, and it all depends.. hehe ^_^ What i hate most is that, upon waking up, i'm not able to fall back to sleep immediately as it's like spoiling my whole sleep, and will affect me the next day.. lol =D
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Aug 09
Well, i have nobody to massage my head, and thus i can only be closing my eyes, waiting for the right moment to fall back into deep sleep again.. lol =D
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
let your new gf...do it for you.......
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
really just like my husband...when he hear some noises he easily get disturb and wake up!...and has difficulty in sleeping back.. so what i do i massage his head so that he can go back to sleep.. what do you do kun..to fall back asleep? thanks!
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
when i was younger i could really tell that i am a scaredy cat!!! there was even that time that when i cannot go back to sleep i bring our pekinese dog with me and we slept. that is so comforting, really. and i am so happy about it. but as i grow older, i rtied my best to overcome my fear of being alone. so when i am on my higher elementary years and high school days, i begin to feel comfortable of being alone. that is my decision and it surely work. hope you can also overcome it my friend. jhelai
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
i do mind setting. i always put in mind that i must overcome this and if i could then another great chievement of ovrcoming my fears. i have done this a thousand times already so i guess making it come true wont be that hard for me to do... jhelai
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
thanks for the response jhelai!
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@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
i hope so my friend..i just hope so! heheheh!..how did you over come it? thanks! jhelaichie!
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
Hi there! I'm not afraid to sleep alone. In fact I have been sleeping alone again, with only my pets cause I am living alone hehe. I have gotten used to sleeping alone in the house I guess. I'm a loner so I'm used to being alone most of the times. If you're scared to sleep alone, try opening the TV or listening to the radio. It will help you go back to sleep. Sometimes being alone and when it's quiet people feel scared because of the quietness. But when you here something like a music or TV it feels that we have company. Ciao!
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
heheheh!thanks for the advice iskayz.. ok ill try that.. take care my friend!
@mymelodake (1338)
• Philippines
2 Sep 09
No, not really. As long as I do not watch anything too scary, I have no qualms about sleeping alone. Sometimes I even wish I am alone, especially when my roommate starts snoring or refuses to turn off the light!
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
2 Sep 09
hahahahah!too bad for you..why your room mate doesnt want to off the lights?scared? i hate when someone snores!..... i cant sleep properly... thanks!
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
hello acie! before, i am like you. afraid to sleep alone! hehehe... i remember when we were just new in our new house where my husband was assigned...there are really some situations that i need to be left alone in the house very early...like some times he has an early appointment and he needs to leave the house by 3 am...that's so bad for me, coz that time i am not yet used to it...really after he leaves, i can't sleep! huh! i'm scared and i feel like there's someone in the house aside from me or outside...i hear many weird things...hehehe but i guess those are just all in my mind...hehehe but as time goes by, i learn to live with it...there's also one place where we live that he even left the house at about 230 a.m and after that i am already alone...just good that i already have a dog then, and he is my company after my husband left! hehehe and he sleeps with me sometimes and my fear of sleeping alone is gone! now i can say that i am not afraid of sleeping alone! i am used to it and i have overcome this fear already...and besides, when my husband left very early, there's always some people outside to guard the place...so i am always assured that i am safe... maybe in time, you can also overcome that fear...you have to.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
good for you..you had people around to guard you.. we had lots of dogs here in my house.. but still im not used sleeping alone at night just scares me a lot..and hearing weird things outside and inside the house!dont want to mention!about the story of my house! just!creeps!me out!!!!!!!!!!!ahhhhhhhhhhhh
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
haha..i think i know that creepy story in your house...hehe but what if you will moved in to another house and situation calls that you need to be alone? hehehe
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!lol!i cant live that way..well my husband is always their for me..ill just try to go with him were ever he goes!lol!
• Sweden
25 Aug 09
No,i'm only afraid to sleep in the dark.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
so your afraid to sleep with lights off?lol!
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
when I am sleeping in my own room, I am not afraid to sleep alone. although there are times I would ask my eldest to sleep beside me whenever my husband is out of town but only because I want us to have a little bonding time together before we sleep and not because I am afraid.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
me too when my husband is not around.. i would go to my sisters house and kept on chatting... doing what we've always used too.. forgetting that its already 3am in the morning! lol...i just missed my sister... thanks for the post silverglint...
@daliaj (5674)
• India
24 Aug 09
I am not afraid to sleep alone. Sometimes I love to be alone - in my own space and sleep alone thinking about my dreams and future. Please know that you are not an exception. I have seen people who are scared to sleep alone. I can sleep along in a big house without thinking about any scary matters.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
thanks..daliaj..
• United States
24 Aug 09
I was the same way and still am the same way. I got my brother to come live with me but that still didn't help. I have this fear because something that happened to me but I am not posting that. I don't want to scare you more out of your wits than you already are. Can you call your husband to reassure you in the middle of work? I would call my husband a bunch of times. He knew I was scared. I envied my children for going to sleep so soundly and I could not. It is very scary. I chatted with people online many times and told them of my fears. Some would ask me for my address to have the police on standby. As embarrassing as my fear was and still is, I think the most helpful thing is having friends and calling them. Do you have a security system in the house? Have a relative move in. Together we must overcome this fear. Ok.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
thanks francis.. yeah..i have relatives near in my house..but no security system.. only dogs around my house.. i cant call him..that i might disturb him..i just text him.. i cant call my friends either cause they are all fast asleep.. thanks for your concern francis..
• China
24 Aug 09
I am a person's sleep,there are also afraid of.Unless they are tired very tired.Then fell asleep until dawn.If there is no matter.Go to bed early.Then suffer from insomnia.I woke up after a little scared.Because I like horror movies.Ha ha.When I feel afraid when eyes closed,so they want some happy things.It would feel a little better.What do you think?
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
what you mean..think of happy things??????? heheheh!still fears..remains..sounds that i heard outside my house! ahhhhhhhhhhhh... i get tired of what im doing..honestly........ lol!THANKS WANGGJIHONG
@Hewaget (12)
• Sri Lanka
24 Aug 09
Hmm...I donno.Im not scared but sometimes After a creepy movie or A weird experience i get a troublesome feeling.But other than that.. na im not scared.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
thanks for your comment...hewaget hoped you drop by again in my discussions.. i really appriciate it.. take care!
• United States
24 Aug 09
Yes I am completely like you! I always make sure I have one of my dogs in my room when I got to bed and if I don't I usually end up sleeping with the light on! And I usually can't sleep until 6 am too, Ithink its because the sun comes up and I'm not so scared anymore. lol. So don't worry your not alone!
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
heheheheh!oh...thanks im not alone.. lol...so what do you often do phoenix? to keep you sleep?and what do you often think when your alone that night...?lol! do you cover your hole body with a blanket too?like me?hahahahha! i just looked crazy... keep posting here phoenix!
• China
24 Aug 09
Yes, I have the same feeling as you before, but as times go by, I overcome it. Pls try to be independent, you can make it!
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
thanks karen... keep on posting my friend..
@lhsy2k (227)
• United States
24 Aug 09
I love sleeping with the g/f but I'm definitely fine with sleeping alone too. What do you think you are so afraid of?
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
that i might see someone standing infront of me...lol! i dont know why...im like this..its just i like watching scary movies a lot! i can only go back asleep when im tired of what im doing..lol! thanks lhsy2k.. your always welcome here in my discussions!
• United States
24 Aug 09
I really don't mind sleeping alone. I can do it it just seems that I don't always sleep so well when I am sleeping alone. I tend to be a bit more restless whenever my partner isn't in bed with me. However, I can sleep alone. I just don't like sleeping alone for a full 8 hours a night. It makes me quite uncomfortable. I hear all sorts of strange noises at night and it tends to make me quite paranoid.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
lol!like what noise do you hear outside?heheheh! creepy right.. thanks for the post!
@aweins (4199)
• India
23 Aug 09
hi acie_21, i dont think i am afraid of sleeping alone. yes, i can be afraid if i am alone in the house but sleeping alone, no, because i am sleeping from last so many years. after marriage, now i am sleeping with my hubby and our baby , but otherwise i use to sleep alone, always. it is fun i think and you know, that you are not disturbing anyone whatever you are doing in your room. if you are reading also with all the lights on in night, then also it hardly matters, because you are disturbing anyone's sleeep.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
i agree aweins sometimes i would like to peffer to sleep alone.. cause my hubby likes to sleep early..but i dont..i like watching too late at night and do noises heheheh! but i just cant!cause im too afraid to sleep alone..lol! keep posting!
@di1159 (1580)
• United States
24 Aug 09
I'm not afraid, I just really can't fall asleep if my husband or the kids are out and I'm expecting them to come home. If I know he is out of town I can, but if I know he's coming back, I just can't until everyone is safe in bed.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
yes i do agree..i just cant sleep tight if my husband still not home safe.. that just worries me if he goes home late for our world is not safe already.. most special when its late at night.. thanks di!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Aug 09
hi acie I have been a widow for sometime but I and my son share apartment until just recently.when he had o work nights and I knew I was in the apartment all alone I just couldnt get to'sleep.I dont think any of us married or not really like to sleep alone'in an empty apartment or a house.I couldnt go to sleep until he came home. We each had our own bedroom but it was still an empty house until I knew he was home.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
good that your son is always there for you.. how many children do you had? feels good to have a a good son just like yours... thanks for your presence..
@xichen7 (153)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
I am not afraid to sleep alone, but my wife is afraid of that. She like to use my arm as a pilow when she sleep. She said it will let her feel safe. Happy mylot!
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
how sweet just like what my husband does..when we sleep at night we used to hug each other..makes me feel safe in his arms.. makes me sleep comfortably. thanks xichen.. hope you keep posting!
23 Aug 09
I also find it difficult to sleep alone, i dont quite think i am scared though, more anxious. I am so used to having my partner sleep next to me it feels lonely if he is not there and im on my own. It often takes me hours to get myself to sleep, wheras if he is there im asleep in 5 minutes.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
heheheh!thanks polo! i know i think its a normal feeling for couples.. that we are always used to sleep together.. i missed my hubby when his not around to sleep with me at night because of work.. hmmmmmmmmmm....how could i ever take my fear away..lol! keep posting here polo!