When is the right tme to say "I DO"?

Honestly, I fear broken marriages because I have a happy family since I am a child. I think I am ready to say I do when I am fully happy with my guy. I am contented with our relationships. I found into him the love and affection that I was searching in my life.

I think that two people are ready when they are each comfortable in their life but can still compromise with the other person. People do change over time, but they have to be ready to change together.

i think the right time to say i do is when they are already ready in all aspect in life, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. emotion cannot stand alone for it may result to broken marriage if they feel bad emotion like anger, jealousy, unhappy etc.

hi care, for me i will say i do to my partner if he proposes to me and if i feel that he is sincere and he is also ready.. i will think million times before answering yes, i want to be sure that if my happiness will last and if we will understand each other for those coming years in our married life.. i don't want to be like some couples who ended up that way, so i will make sure that all the facts will be present if i will marry him.. one of the things i will consider is the financial things, if he can attend our needs and wants.. and we know that this is one of the major quarrels made by a couple and ended up to nothing.. janebeth.

well in my opinion what causing divorce grow rapidly is because there is no honesty in pra wedding time. When people going on date, they always show their "brightside" not considering that marriage ask for a two couple to live as they are and not as the good in magazine told so. when one found that her/his couple is doing something wrong (uh oh the darkside emerge:D) they cant stand for it, because they are not ready. Seeing only the brightside is giving you the wonderful but utopia life with your couple so the right moment to say I DO is when you see your couple as the way they are, not a handsome or beautiful mask, nor a great and heroic act. When you love someone with his/her good and bad, that is what people called love. yeah but to accept one's bad habit is such a hard things to do, but trust me, it works with my mom and dad, just say I DO when you know who ask you to answer that ^^

I believe the reason why a lot of Marriage's don't work is because people do generally just fall out of love. When you get married it is all "perfect" but how ever long down the line you can just find that you may be drifting apart. I would say the right time to say I Do is the wrong thing to say as it's different for every couple but I would would say that there are a number of things you should look at before getting married. 1. I feel you should be living together before marriage as one of the reasons so many marriages go wrong is that the couple had never lived together until they were married and then found out they could not spend that time together. 2. Make sure that you and your partner have your own individual bank account if you decide to open a joint account as that would cut down one of the most common rows people have (About money). 3. Talk to your partner and see how they see the relationship and just general things. This will give you a better idea of how you two would get along if you were married. 4. Finally spend some time away from your partner, ie a break with friends or just a few day trips as everyone needs space from time to time and it will also give you a perspective on how much you miss them when they are away.

I think it's very different for each situation. Like right now, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years, living together for about 2 and half years of that. So far things are good but even at this point everything is work. I think people should live together before they get married because then you learn more about one another like annoying habits and whatnot. But people don't just break up in the beginning years of marriage either. My friend's parents were married for 30 years and just separated. I believe you have to work on your marriage until you die, it won't get any easier. For me, I am ready to say I Do for when my boyfriend decides to ask me, I am happy in our relationship and I know him...I know at this point and time he's not ready yet so I'm just waiting for him to catch up so to speak. LOL.

There is no hard and fast answer to this question. It all depends on how you feel in your heart. When I got married at 19, don't think for a second I didn't have doubts. We worked hard on our marriage and I can't say we're anywhere close to perfect, but one thing is for sure...we simply can't live without each other. Now, thirteen years later we're still hanging in there. One common misconception people have about marriage is they think it's always gonna be great. Well I'll be the first to stand up and tell you it is most certainly not! Even my grandparents, who have been married for over 50 years fight every now and then. Just like my husband and I, they fight, make up, and then laugh about how silly they acted. For me, it's all about growing old and maturing together. Sometimes people just grow apart and divorce is their answer. I am in this marriage for the long haul and if that requires being so angry I could stab him at times or getting my feelings hurt every now and then, then so be it. That's life.

Husdand and wife is the main body of the family handle marital relationship, mutual respect and mutual love. In life, we must respect each other, love each other. In ancient China once made the couple "Xiangjingrubin" as a vrtue, and modern times, the love between husband and wife as to maintain anexus. Respect comes from love, love more deeply because of respect. Between husband and wife should be caring and considerate, and continue to create interest in life, pay attention to ideological communication and life anaphora. In the household labor and management, should be democratic consultaion, democratic governance. The husband should not be housework all the blame to his wife, believed that women should be doing housework; his wife, they should not be all they can do things to push her husband. Ih the work, they should learn from each other and help each other. Both husband and wife have their own job-related problems and distress, which would be of mutual covcern, mutual support, mutual comfort and encourage each other to ask and help solve other problems; towarm Kexin's words, a positive attitude so that the other firm confidence, concentric Tongde tide over the difficulties. There are conflicts between two spouses, to mutual tolerance and mutual understanding. If conflicts arise, to exercise patience, do not struggle, can not narrow mind and improper means to expand the state of affairs; should take the initiative to assume their responsibilities and use gentle approach to persuade each other of contradictions for the coordination of the conflict for the good will, and of anguish for the laughter. Husband and wife should be faithful to each other, love, single-minded. . do not without any basis arbitrary speculation, suspicion and interference, but to endorse the attitude of holding to each other's colleagues and friends as their friends, warm courtesy treatment. I hope that everyone's marriage is happy.

Well, I dont think anyone can say for sure when the right time is. Personally, I dated my now husband for 2 years, we were engaged for 2 years, lived together for a time and were still in love. I think that if you can blend your morals, beliefs, and everyday lives and be able to respect each other and each other's opinions you are in a good position to be married. There is always some give and take and adjustment as people grow and change, and there are never any guarantees, but if you feel there is a good foundation, then I say go for it.

Well, I think the only right time to say I do is when you feel it, and mean it; when you mean it because you love the person. I think most of the time people get married for the wrong reasons and that's why they end up in divorce. Many times people or after money or after that ideal person that is "society" accepted rather than what they want. I've seen people refuse to marry someone they actually love just because they are the "standard" guy. People lie to themselves that they love the person, and they ignore a lot of things that bother them because they think they'll get over them. If something bothers you in your partner, don't think that it will change after you get married, it will bother you even more. Also, many women just wanna see themselves get married that the first guy that pops the question they say "I DO". And it's not only your part here, you also have to recognize the true love from your partner. If you feel they are marrying you for any reason, other than love, then don't accept. So, there is no best time to say I do...it's when you feel it and when you know for sure it's what you both want.