The Fine Line: Where do you define the difference between drama & reality

@zoey7879 (3092)
Quincy, Illinois
August 27, 2009 2:55pm CST
Until a few days ago, I was still friends with an old boyfriend whom I will call " B ". B ended our relationship on a really bad note, but we remained friends anyway. A few months ago, someone whom he had dated after we broke up came to me, asking me all sorts of questions about our relationship and how it ended. Since April, he's had about 4 or 5 other girlfriends or crushes. Now last week, the sister of his latest girlfriend has done the same... His new girlfriend got pissed off and jealous that he was talking to female friends and he was upset about it. Well, his girlfriend started asking MY friend all about me, and I told him that it pisses me off that she just didn't come to me herself. Next thing I know, my phone calls aren't returned, I'm removed from all his various friends lists and/or blocked without any reason.. but his personal message saying "You said you want to get rid of the drama in your life, I guess that means I have to get rid of you." Was telling him that if his girlfriend wants to ask others about me that she should get to know me and just ask me herself REALLY "causing drama"? Does anyone feel that wrong for me to say that she should get to know me? :( I'm really upset over this all even though I know that I shouldn't be. Ever had this crap happen?
1 response
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
27 Aug 09
I'm sorry but I don't want to get to know of my husbands ex girl friends. If you all were still friends why didn't you know her anyway.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
27 Aug 09
Beats me... I dont know anything about her except that her name is Claire and she lives in Australia. B lives in New Mexico, I live in Illinois, and that's not really the point. I was asking really if it was wrong to want someone who's going behind my back to ask people stuff about me to simply just .. ask me themself.