If you're a friendly person, how many would you like to have?

@mobhomeir (7565)
Philippines
August 29, 2009 12:55am CST
What I mean my friends, would you like to have a few selected or everyone of them whom you know? I am a friendly person but I don't want to have a big company of friends because most often than not that's where would be the problem comes. You can't control some of the behaviors and attitudes to some of them. Whereas if you are just 2 or 3 friends together that you might considered your best,that's manageable to handle. That's what I like to have. But, I like everyone to be my friends. How about you, how many friends would you like to have?
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8 responses
@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
Hello Martin, During my younger days,i don't like to have barkada,i only had my bestfriend with me.I don't go outing,i don't attend party,i am a very much homebody person. But with my situation now(work/organisation)i am always with people around.So,i need a lot of changes,and it increases my self confidence and it helps a lot with my behaviour dealing towards people/crowds. I only had few selected closefriends whom i can share my feelings and i feel close to my heart.And i enjoy my friends company,thu we are of age difference,career status,life standards it doesn't to us...what matters most is...we all enjoy each others company and we had the chemistry(from engineer,accountant CPA,nurse,artist,caregiver,businesswoman etc)we had only one thing in common...we love and respect each other.That keeps our friendship stronger as ever.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
Well said my friend, a good quality of friends huh! Well, it means you're such a simple friend that could easily mingled with anybody regardless of their status. But I am sure there's just one amongst them that you considered the best of them all...Thanks my friend...keep it up..I like your style..
@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
thanks again amigo for the mark... This day,August 30,09 we again added one event with my internet friends.We had a get together party attended by friends from Samar,and 2 from Cagayan Valley,they really exerted effort/money/time for this event.Yah,we only met thru internet.. Regarding close/bestfriend amongst my friend...i don't have anyone or one i can say and count as my best,but,i consider everyone of them as my closefriend...i can't describe what kind of friendship we had,but, " no words come close enough to describe it "...we had this undescribable feeling towards each other.(we love each other like real sister,maybe becoz,we met each other on this matured age...ages ranges from 24-38) We really enjoy each other...this day is another day...full of laughters and happiness
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
My pleasure my friend because you deserved it...Oh yes...I appreciate it..You know what? Last month I posted a topic about someday there would someone, a deserving one that could build a group or an organization that could put as all mylotters into a PHILIPPINE MYLOTTERS ASSOCIATION he he he and every responders agreed. But I never know you before..now as what I observe from you..you deserve it...he he he from now on, I will start campaigning for you to the President of Phil. Mylotter Association. he he he he he Why you never invited me even once..you just keep on saying some of your friends were coming to you...blah blah blah are your friends exclusively ladies only? he he he he
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
for me...i 'd rather have few but true and real friends! i mean friends in its real meaning and not just an ornament in my life...friends that i can really count on and i can trust to and vise versa... but just like you, i also want to be a friend to everybody...or rather to be in good terms to everybody!
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@123amy (31)
• China
29 Aug 09
totally agree with you.....and i dont want to be a person that can make good friends with everyone. i care the quality, not the quantity......
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
I agree with that friends...quality friends not quantity...Hope I would be included on that quality...thanks for responding...
@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
8 Sep 09
Ornament?? lol =D NICe way of describing your frenz huh?? hehe ^_^ Just there for the sake of being there, while not being sincere.. hehe I dun like to have alot of frenz by my side, and like u, i wanna be a fren to most ple.. haha =D
@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
8 Sep 09
I dun care for alot of frenz in life as i only need real frenz ^_^ To me, frenz are just like family members, and in case any anything that happends, frenz will be the next person we had in mind ^_^ True frenz are far too few and rare, thus i have got less than 10 frenz in my life.. haha =D I dun ask for much, as majority of them are sharing more or less same passion and interest as me, so, that will be more than enough.. hehe
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
I understand that...you must be a friendly person then...thanks for responding...
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@colydf (913)
• China
30 Aug 09
I think I am a friendly person, and for me, I do not like to have a large number of friends, I think just a few selected friends is OK for me. With those friends, we are really close friends, we can always share our inner heart with them. Have a nice day!
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
So am I colydf my friend. Thanks for responding...
• China
29 Aug 09
hi frend.i think people must have some friends,but some friends are good for you,some friends are bad for you.so you can have 2-3 real friends of caring of you
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
Yes you're right. I mean 2 or 3 would enough for me but I like lots of friends but I would prefer 2 or 3 which I considered quality not quantity. A few trusted friends. Thanks for responding...
@lelin1123 (15635)
• Puerto Rico
29 Aug 09
I'm happy with 2 or 3 friends that is enough for me. More than that it becomes complicated to me. With their different personalities and attitudes it can become problems that I don't want. With a few its a bit more managable.
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
Well said my friend, that's why maybe we have one thing in common in having a friends. Three is enough, more is too much...thanks anyway for responding..
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
29 Aug 09
Having lots of friends would be nice... but I am very very peculiar about friendships. I don't get along with most females... I also don't do well when it's a group of people.. usually of more than two others. I would prefer even just ONE honest friend.. versus a hundred fair-weathered ones!
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
Well said my friend because where the same attitude when it comes to friends...thanks for responding...
• Bulgaria
29 Aug 09
I would like to have 2-3 friends.But not anly for fun...I vave many but they not realy close to me
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
Yes my friend. So am I, as what I had said I don't like so many specially if you're going on happenings together, usually it is where trouble would starts...thanks for responding....