what are the qualitys when looking for a man or women?

The only thing I look for is a good heart!! along with not so bad beauty. however I prefer to give priority to the character than going for the looks.

For me.A man,he likes to family life,love their children..The overall situation,understand humility,patience and strong,do not fight do not rob,do not force others to the will.Maybe he did not a big deal,but he would whole-heartedly love family,love my wife,love their children.Especially for the needs of the family,he can be a good husband.My husband is such a good man.

For me a girl . choosing a man(husband). he should be man enough have a man charactor . and also he need treat me well and take good after of me. the most important thing is that he should have a great responsibility