What are Your Beliefs about Yourself?

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One thing I have realized over and over in my life is how much we can carry beliefs about ourselves which affect our everyday lives, and these beliefs may not even be true. All of us at some point may have labels placed on us - by teachers, by parents, by a peer group, a boss, and in so many cases looking back many of these labels say more about the person placing them than us, yet it is us who carry them into our later lives. To give an example, I have always had a little voice in my head telling me 'you're lazy'. I believed this was the sort of person I was, despite evidence to the contrary - I worked my butt off at college and got a good degree, I have always worked hard to the point of perfectionism and, I suppose, having to prove myself, in all my jobs, I can NOT leave dishes in the sink....if anything I'm a bit of a frantic 'do-er'! But I realised this came from when I was at school. I had arthritis diagnosed at the age of ten, and this was quite severe in my teenage years, so I had constant pain. I had physiotherapy before school every morning. A particular teacher persisted in constantly making me feel like I was deliberately being slow - she was the PE teacher and I was signed off by the Doctor from doing some things physical, and she just made me feel like I was fat, lazy and useless. I absorbed this as a belief about myself and carried it for so long, but now I realise I was not lazy, I WAS TIRED!! And this woman - shes just a person, who doesn't get to decide my character! So, does anyone else feel they have held themselves back in any way by holding on to an erroneous belief about themselves?