TIRED of my life

Philippines
August 31, 2009 1:57am CST
right now im not satisfied of my life, my job and my status. im always bored, i dont wanna go to work but i cant do anything i have to. My status, most of my friend do have jobs also. We cant have fun like the old days when we were still studying. Specially now that my job does have this shifting schedule, when its my day off most of my friends are on their job. And what makes it worst is that im the only one with the shifting schedule.while they are on a party on a weekend im at work. i dont like this kind of life
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13 responses
@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
hello mendoma, Don't be because you are so lucky that you have a job. You should be thankful and proud for you are working unlike the others. That you have a money of your own and you don't need to ask from your parents. Those were the days when you were studying that you have all the time with your friends. It's much different now. You can have a new circle of friends now with your co-workers.
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
thanks to all...im glad that all of you gave feedback that i should not be down. Thinking what all of you said, it make me realize that im not that unlucky.Thanks so much everyone
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• Philippines
20 Sep 09
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
Hey, Yea many people look at their life, and find out that it is just like you have described it. I know quite a lot of people who have to do shift work, and they absolutely hate it, but they are still happy! Try and look on the brighter side of life. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
1 Sep 09
You are cute mendoma! It's called life. I don't have to look at your profile to see that you are very young. We've all gone thru this transition. It's kind of a shock...isn't it? You will adjust and still manage to find time for your friends...it just takes some time. Think about it this way....your job is what keeps you independent. {{{Hugs}}} Hang in there...I'm sure you'll be just fine.
• Indonesia
1 Sep 09
I am tired too, everyday always go to work to get some money. That is bad. Everyday I always leave my sons lonely with my servant. But that is life. That is love, we must have responsibility to our family
@Sanziana (88)
• Romania
1 Sep 09
You need to change your job then; find something else, something that pleases you and permits you to have time for going out with your friends if that's what it's missing you. If this isn't enough maybe you need to change also your way of thinking, of seeing the world. I know that telling you "be more positive, more optimistic" bla bla can seem pretty boring. Or try out with yoga, lol. Nobody knows better that you, I believe. You need to analize your life and then make a decision.Good luck!
@LLXK14 (1)
• United States
1 Sep 09
To have fun is the only pure motive amongst many motivations... If you think going to party, or hanging out with your friends is the only fun you can possibly have, you should think outside that box.
@neededhope (1085)
• United States
31 Aug 09
I'm tired of my life too hun. I can kinda understand. basically right now I"m not working and all I do is play a interactive game with others online. That's it that's my life. My friends... well they are all on the game... I've only met one of them in person. My husband works so I'm home all day with no wheels. Just me and my computer. I can't go shopping I can't do most things that I want too. And my friends well.. there all grown up no parties and most of them are in different states. Be thank ful that your friends are close to you and that you can enjoy at least some time with them. I know it's a pain growing up and living a life of not what you though it would be. But life is of how we make it and sometimes we need to change things to make areselves happy. Now only if I could take my own advice I'd be doing better. Hun keep your chin up and just look forward to the good days that you have. And enjoy them all the more on the days that aren't so good.
@aprces (1082)
• China
31 Aug 09
[i]Don' t look so blue smile!Do something you never did it,make some changes.You can be a organizer to start a party.You can be the leader,the first one.Don't wait for anything To be frank,I am having a terrible life too,It seems that yours is much better than mine.There's still exist choice that we can pick,no matter what the situation is tough badly,we still have the chance to pick.If you want,do yourself[/i]
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
31 Aug 09
Hi there, Cool down. Not only that are missing their friends like you. There are millions. this is a natural menifestation that you have cut off your previous life , I mean the life when you were still studying but now things have changed. And you too have to change accordingly. So what you miss you friends ,are not there other people who could share with you? Think positive and you would be happy. all the best.
@med889 (5941)
31 Aug 09
I am losing my job this week because my boss is going abroad, so I have to search for another job. I have to start my degree from a new university, I have to find already some £600 for the start, I dunno though where to get the money as I do not have a job yet, I get a loan to pay myself. I got a family and problems asides. But still I am courageous enough to start all over again because I believe in myself a lot. Atleast you ahve a job. We cannot complain in life when we have things around. Atleast my love ones are supporting me. Thats enough for me though.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
31 Aug 09
I know how u feel or at least how I used to feel before I got married. It can get boring and you're not sure what to do. Why not go out and explore and try things on your own. Go pamper yourself when you're off. You don't always have to have your friends to have fun and besides when you do things on your own who knows you may meet other people and make new friends.
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
It must have been hard for you that you don't enjoy with your job. Why don't you find a new job? In that way, you could enjoy some of your spare time with your friends.
• Bulgaria
31 Aug 09
Well I am bored from my life too but I am in a worse situation.I have no health, no job,no friends,no future I live only because God.I do not see a sense of life.I am so desperate. I do not see justice in life because all good things change when I need to use them. I'm interested in nothing. All things that I've ever dreamed are crushed.I hate this world.