Friends with Benefits
By gmode8
@gmode8 (60)
United States
August 31, 2009 3:24pm CST
I would like to hear from those who have had FWB relationships turn into serious committed relationships. I am in a FWB relationship and I am feeling too much. It has only been a month. I told him I needed someone in my life all the time not part time. He said give him time .. he might change his mind. What do you think?
1 response
@JenBth (75)
• United States
31 Aug 09
I am not in a relationship like this, but I have and know people that have. I am sorry to say that this RARELY turns into anything. If you need someone to be there for you more solidly and to be reliable and this guys is not able to do this for you- then you might want to save yourself some time and heartache and stop the benefits part. Everyone thinks that their relationship is the exception to the rule, but these exceptions rarely happen. There are guys out there that WANT to be there for you, will love you unconditionally and will make you happy without all of these rules about becoming more serious. I can testify that this part is true and will happen if you are patient enough. Why not treat yourself to someone that will love you and be devoted to you and tell this guy who might-someday-maybe-possibly-be-ready-eventually to take a hike because you are too good to deal with his issues? I don't know you, but no girl deserves this treatment.
