Have You Ever Walked Out In The Middle Of An Exam or Interview?

@wolfie34 (26770)
United Kingdom
September 1, 2009 2:15pm CST
I don't think I was in the right frame of mind, or that my heart was truly in it, or I just couldn't think straight or concentrate so I decided to walk out of an assessment this evening I have been signing up to college courses mainly to keep my mind occupied and to fill in the void that gambling used to take up, spending my money on college courses instead to get me out, meet people and learn something When I was at school it was CSE's and I have both my English and Maths CSE, but now it's all changed and it's now GCSE's. I love Maths and I went to college in 2003 and I got my Maths GCSE, no problems, but it got me thinking wouldn't future employers find it strange that I have on my CV Maths GCSE and not English? But Shakespeare has put me off doing English before, but I decided to go for the assessment tonight, the course is pretty expensive, they grade you and if you pass you are accepted onto the course Well I went in and was given the assessment paper and I just couldn't concentrate, I picked up the pen, read the questions through and read the assignment but I just sat there for 10 minutes, I couldn't concentrate, I couldn't get into it and I just felt that I couldn't do it. So I walked out, end of.. Have you ever walked out of an exam, assessment or even an interview? Because you just couldn't cope, couldn't deal with the situation or for other reasons? I don't feel cross with myself, it was the right thing to do, I wasn't going to sit there for 2 hours if my heart wasn't in it and my mind just went totally blank Am I alone here?
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@DCLehnsherr (1037)
1 Sep 09
Hi Wolfie, When I was in school I never used to walk out of exma,s and instead would go to sleep if I felt I couldn't do it or got furstrated. I used to end up seated in the centre of the exam halls and because I hate being the centre of attention, and failing, I would never walk out, so sleeping was a good way to kill the time for me. More recently (I hope this counts) I signed up on disability benefits and part of that involved speaking to an organisation about my disability and how it effected me and my quest to get work. Well they put me in a room with 2 people, one of whom had some form of disability themselves (I don't hold that against them but it made me feel insanely uneasy) and started quizzing me about jobs and my weaknesses therein. I had my CPN with me at the time, but these people started asking me probing questions about what Aspergers meant to me and though she was meant to answer for me, I was usually left to do that and well I had only been diagnosed a few months earlier and still didn't understand Aspegers I couldn't answer most of the questions. This coupled with the smallness of the room, the number of the people in the room, my hatred of anything to do with being social, and the utter unease of the whole thing quickly, became too much for me so I stormed out of the room, found a corner in the thankfully quiet area outside and cried with stress and frustration! My CPN explained to them why I had left the room, and told me that I had all the time I wanted to calm down and go back, but the experience doesn't give me much faith in those organisations, or them in me since they have left me alone since! On the bright side the whole thing was a good way to illustrate how my disability affects me, they really couldn't argue with the very obvious signs of distress I displayed on that day lol! If that counts then it proves on a level that you are definitely not alone, though I did feel ashamed of myself after that incident because I hate both weakness in myself, and displaying emotions in front of people, so I left that meeting rather annoyed over all lol All the best and good luck for the future, Dranz :)
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 09
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me, I enjoyed reading that and yes it was pertinent. My ex had aspergers syndrome and I have BPD (borderline personality disorder) so I understand the concept, complexities that mental illnesses has on people, their loved ones and outsiders. And the ignorance too and the senseless labels people are given.
26 Sep 09
Hi Wolfie, Many thanks for the best response, I am really glad this this resonated with you. I have a meeting with a medical person about benefits soon, I think that could be another walking out in the middle occasion lol! All the best, Dranz
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
2 Sep 09
Hi my dearest brother! Of course I have done the same thing! I have wanted to walk out on so many more than I actually had the nerve to get up and walk out on! I have had that feeling so many times and if I was acually able to physically get up without being noticed because I was the only one in the room I just about ran out! Don't feel badly about it either! If it wasn't meant to be then it is ok! You can do whatever you want! Remember, this is your choice to make and no one is holding you to it! No one is making you do this and if it doesn't feel right or comfortable then it is up to you to decide!
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 09
Wrong place wrong time, dear sis, I've got a lot going on in my head right now and so I couldn't concentrate, so maybe it's a blessing in disguise, as I stated it wasn't cheap the course so I wouldn't have blown my money for nothing. Fate works in mysterious ways. Huggles x
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
5 Sep 09
No, I don't think I could do that. It's the sort of commitment I would just have to follow through on. If I could not do it I would still try my best and sit there for the allotted time...ya gotta be in it to win it. I think I might be too embarrassed to walk ou as well.
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
5 Sep 09
I don't think it was embarrassment for me, more bravery and I am actually proud of myself for walking out, rather than sit there for 2 hours getting frustrated, angry and despondent and achieving nothing, you have to follow your heart. Which I did and I have absolutely NO regrets
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Sep 09
aw my poor Wolfie Hugs..........I am going back to school too!!! It's exciting!!. I have never walked out on a test or exam . But after my son, Kevin was born I was supposed to get my tubes tied. I went into the hospital, checked in and sat there for an hour and a half. I was so nervous and finally couldn't take it anymore. So I walked out. Never tried to do that again either.
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 09
I also walked out on tests that needed to be done, they were embarrasing ones and the nurse she was a right cow, fortunately the tests didn't have to be done so I was saved that so I was glad I walked out. Thanks for the hugs ;0)
• United States
1 Sep 09
wow thats very dramatic you must be in college. its surprising that you did that i haven't heard many people tell me stories like yourse. but its 100 percent believable and can happen to anyone. once i ran out of my class room because this girl was being mean to me and i felt like everyone in the class room was against me so i just got up dropped all my school stuff on the floor and ran out. i decided to walk around and clear my head then go into the counselors office to lay down and talk. so i kinda in a way know how you feel. its like your not really thinking you just do, at the time it just feels right. it just feels like the right thing to do. but no i haven't ever walked out on a test or interview. i haven't had many interviews probably only about one so thats why i never walked out on one of those. then in middle of exam if i don't know the answer i would just make up something that makes it sound like i do know what i'm talking about as long as i try thats most important to me rather just giving blank answers. because that looks like i just don't care. well thank you for sharing your awesome story. happy mylotting!
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 09
Thank you, yes it did feel right, what felt wrong was me sitting there for 2 hours, sitting there blank and probably writing stuff that didn't make sense, I was wasting my time and sometimes you just have to make the decision and cut your losses.
• Pamplona, Spain
2 Sep 09
Hi wolfie34, No you are not alone on this one, I once went to join the Navy as an ATS and he had me do a test of all sorts. But when it came to the maths part I got all the difficult ones right and all the easy ones wrong. Then it came to doing algebra which is pet hate in Maths I just went a complete blank and of course I did´nt get through but I did´nt break my heart about it. Also when it comes to writing about Internet Marketing my mind goes a complete blank it is not me. I just cannot make up something I don´have a clue about I cannot invent something either that is really hard for me to write about so I don´t write about it I take the back door instead and write about something else. I do Squidoo lenses and Hubpages but of my own choices not what someone else would have me do because they come from the heart and not from the head. I write long Squidoo lenses not your typical stuff so if you want to get bored one day just head over there and read them you might find yourself asleep poof in a second. What courage you have wolfie that is something to write about it comes across you believe in yourself a lot that is most important. I like the essence of Shakespeare but I don´t know if I could endure writing about him either and I lived quite near to where he was born Stratford on Avon shame on me lol.
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
5 Sep 09
What I can't understand is it's the 21st century and we are still reading about Shakespeare, and old English, what importance is that to today? None! But yes I am proud of myself for having the courage to walk out, either that or sweat it out for 2 hours frustrated at achieving absolutely nothing for my trouble. I couldn't do it, end of, move on... No good looking back and I certainly have no regrets about it.
@nannacroc (4049)
1 Sep 09
That took a lot of courage, Wolfie. I haven't done this but came close when I did a stage 2 sign language exam which I knew I would fail. It sounds like you did the right thing for you and that is what you have to keep doing. If you're not working can't you get some courses for free?
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 09
Yes I have found out that I can do Skills for life English which is free I need to ring up to find out more and go for an interview. No, my heart wasn't it dear friend. I console myself in that I have other courses booked, pyschology, art classes and meditation (november) which I know will help me.
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
2 Sep 09
If you have no regrets about walking out, it was obviously the right thing to do, Wolfie. It would have been a wasted two hours if your heart wasn't in it, and you would have only ended up frustrated and upset. I'm sure you'll know when the right course presents itself, and you'll be ready to give it your all!
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 09
I think I would have been even more frustrated had I off paid the money for the course itself, at least this way I walked away without regret or losing a penny!
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 09
I have never walked out of an examination. I tried to do the best that I could. Moving the pen on paper while letting the mind go is one way of getting the brain into action. In one interview I clammed up after around 20 minutes. Walking out was out of the question, since it was against the way I was brought up. After picking my brain on what I intended to do if given the job as a General Manager, I was questioned about the way I dressed up. The person before me wore a two piece suit, complete with a tie. He had a car, while I rode a motorcycle for 70km. The interview then asked me for further details of what I had in mind. Before that he did give a hint that I was not going to get the job. We are never alone.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
2 Sep 09
Hi wolfie34 Aww wolfie you do seem to be having a hard time of things right now don't you? Isn't there any help out there for you financially to do some courses? I start mine at the end of September and have had the course fee waivered and have only had to pay £8 of the £40 exam fee too. They will also pay £50 per year for petrol!! Maybe you should think of taking a different course entirely, something that hasn't got too much pressure but is certificated so you still have something at the end of it to show for your hard work. I can't say I have ever walked out of anything, probably more the fool me but I stick things out to the bitter end or more of a, wouldn't like the idea of people looking at me, haha
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
4 Sep 09
Oooh let me think, art classes? pyschology? Am I getting warm?
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 09
It doesn't rain it pours yes I know, but when you reach the bottom the only way as they say is up. I have a few other courses I have booked, art class, pyschology and meditation, and I am also doing a free course which I found out about today when I went to Mind it's a place where you go to meet other people who suffer from depression/mental illnesses etc... Besides they wanted £240 for the GCSE English course so maybe it was a blessing in disguise!
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@Humbug25 (12540)
2 Sep 09
Oh I defininatly think so wolfie!! I think you are going to get a lot of the course you are taking instead! Guess what course I am starting?
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
2 Sep 09
honestly never in my entire life and wishing that it really wont happen to me. for me before going there for anything, i have focus and put in my mind that i will the particular thing and of course always pray for the guidance and strength. in HIM there's no impossible.
• Canada
1 Sep 09
Nope, can't say that I have but... I have walked out on an annual family picnic never to return again LOL If your head's not in it...leave, I believe it's the right thing to do otherwise you just build up more frustrations=stress and who needs that? Did I ever feel guilty about it? Never!
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@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 09
I guess the timing was not right either, with my head all over the place, but I comfort myself in knowing that I have a few other college courses lined up which won't be so heavy going and will keep me occupied. Huggles x
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
1 Sep 09
I have never walked out on an exam or interview, but I did walk away from college. I had done my homework the night before, was on my way to class, looked up at the school and kept walking. I never returned. I don't specifically know why I did it but I did have a lot of things on my mind at the time and guess it all got to be overwhelming. Sometimes out bodies just know what we need and it does what it has to do.
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 09
Well my head and heart certainly knew what to do they were telling me to walk out, I did and I have no regrets, it wasn't for me, wrong place, wrong time, maybe one day, who knows but right now I move on...
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
2 Sep 09
I haven't walked out of those particular situations, Wolfie, but I have walked out in or dropped other things right in the middle of it all. Some things just cannot be forced. Like you, I really had no ill will toward myself. Not everything that is expected has to go the same way for each of us. There comes a point when we do, right at the moment, what is right for US. Karen
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 09
Hi Karen I guess wasn't ready, simple as that, I am not emotionally fit at the moment anyhow and I don't want to take more things until I've sorted my head out. Maybe later, but for now it's best that I treat myself gently.
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• United States
2 Sep 09
I think it is good to take on enough...but never too much. It only adds to the difficulty and frustration of trying to get ourselves footed on firmer ground. I think you'll know when the time is right! Karen
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
14 Sep 09
Hello wolfie. I have never walked out in the middle of an exam because I know once I do so, I will not pass the exam, but of course I am always well prepared for an exam. A good preparation enables us to do a great job in whatever we do. Take care, friend.
@dodo19 (48220)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Sep 09
I don't remember ever doing this. The only time I would have left an exam or interview was when the exam or interview was done. Otherwise, I don't remember ever doing this sort of thing, during an exam or interview.
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 09
Well I wasn't sitting there wasting my time, 2 hours is a long time to sit there when your mind is blank or your heart is not in it.
@srganesh (6339)
• India
2 Sep 09
Yes!It was back in my college days,I walked out of two practical exams like that.It was due to some misunderstandings with the lecturer then.He grew some hatred towards me and some of my friends and he would not allow us to concentrate on practical classes.So,on that day,when I get my question paper,the experiment I had to do was not practiced by me at all and I just walked out of the hall.Later,I finished it the next year as an arrears paper.Cheers!
@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 09
I never walk away. There were numbers of interviews and exams that I had to go through eventhough my mind was blank and the interviewers already eyeing me with a smirk on their faces. Still I sat through and saw the end of it. I am always sux during interviews (and I hate it) but walking out is never an option. No matter what I'll end it.
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
5 Sep 09
I've never walked out on an interview, because you can learn from interviews and it's all about practice, there was nothing I could have learnt from sitting in an asssessment room for 2 hours sitting there mind blank and getting more frustrated at achieving nothing.
@gelibean (158)
• United States
1 Sep 09
I have never walked out of an exam but I have had the urge to. Sometimes you just know would be better off leaving instead of staying and taking a test that you know you won't do well on.
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 09
True, I wasn't going to waste time by just sitting there, or writing stuff that I knew wouldn't make sense and would only fail anyhow.
2 Sep 09
I personally have never walked out mainly because I was never in a situation you have been. I normally take any kind of tests as a challenge whether I like it or not. I have definitely not passed in all the tests I have taken in my life but then I believe in "Give it a try" policy. But then its just my personal opinion. Many people think otherwise and prefer to leave instead of doing something their heart is not into. Having said that I have finished a lot of tests in half-time and handed over the answer sheets and left the room. These are the ones I normally score very low or fail :) I guess many know the results as soon as they read the questions. I am no different and prefer to answer whatever little i know and then get the hell out of there.
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
5 Sep 09
Hi there welcome to Mylot, I think sometimes it's best to cut your losses, I would only have got wound up and frustrated if I had stayed, my heart and brain wasn't in it and I was fighting a losing battle, I tried, I went, I didn't have to go to the assessment, I am glad I did, found out it wasn't for me and that's it move on, no regrets!