Because lack of money, a marriage get devorced...

@pormadi (1300)
Indonesia
September 2, 2009 2:53am CST
I think some person in my country get divorced because lack of money. Especially, women want to get divorced because her hasband can not fullfil their family need. Love is not the impotant thing in their relationship. Do you think that money is one of the main important thing before make decision to married?
7 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
I agree that money is one of the important thing in the life of a person to live. But this is not the requirement to get married. In my opinion. Money is not the main purpose to make a decision to get married. The best and important thin in married is love. We can find money anywhere but we can hardly found real love in anywhere. We can live without money. If couples cooperative enough and do some planting and make farm. They can live without requiring money. But the problem. Most of the woman is that they are very demanding and want more money to buy their personal needs. They are very selfish and not consider love most of the time. They get divorce because they feel that they are not happy without money but love. What I can say is that those woman, is fool and idiot. They love to make sin than to make happiness and love. How about you. Did you prefer money than love? Are you like with them that no important with them is money. Is money being the basis of getting married in your opinion?
@pormadi (1300)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 09
I think everyone should consider love and money before getting married. Someone can not eat love, but need money too. Both money and love are important before getting married.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
That's the best thing. But if ever that we choose one of your questions. I will go to love. Because money is useless if you don't have love. Love can be as great even if you don't have money. You can marry without money because you can live without money. Even if you have money and marrying someone without love that is a useless thing. Because you find yourself in other relationship that you found someone to care off. I don't know about you. If you consider money without love. It is really true that we cannot eat love but money is not everything. A relationship in terms of money is not real love because you can't buy love.
• China
5 Sep 09
all people need money and money is one of the important thing in the life of a person to live. But this is not the requirement to get married. If people get divorced beacuse of money,it is not a wise choice.It is so sad!
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
2 Sep 09
I think love is important to them too that is why they got married. But sometimes, when our physical needs, especially food, shelter and clothing are poorly met, we tend to rebel and demand a better life. It is really the husband's responsibility to provide a good life to his family. Maybe finances are just one of the main reason but there are several other reasons why they would choose to divorce.
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
to be more precise i think the ability to make and hold on to money is more like it to be considered before settling down. some people earn a lot but spend a lot. some people earn little but know how to make do with what they have and still save some for the rainy days. i think the latter is more preferable, right? certainly, seeing a little infant crying because of no milk is truly heartbreaking for any mother. this is a sure sign of bad things to come...
@med889 (5941)
2 Sep 09
I have read about this on the internet and it happens in some other countries also apart from yours. This is a really shame where the money is becoming more important than the love between them so I am totally against this practice. Love is the most important factor then comes understanding and maturity and finally the matter of money because only when we are fully mature and understanding can we feel that money is not the most important aspect in a relationship than love.
• Indonesia
2 Sep 09
Usually so. But a long experience of living together surely gives something. Money is important, but can you find someone can love you more than him?
• Indonesia
2 Sep 09
I think all people need money. That is not only if we get married. For get married the important thing to prepare is responsibility and commitment. Because married is gathering two person who have different ability. There are a lot of difference. So, if in the next day after that people married, all problem can get the good decission