I gotta get me some new friends!!

Hi Humbug! I count myself extremely lucky in that I have a multitude of friends, and close friends here on Mylot, but I am always accepting new friends, but I very seldom request friendship, but I put that down to my irrational fear of rejection, yes I know it probably sounds daft, but that's me. Most if not all of my friends are on notifications and yet I still don't get the influx of notifications like I used to and not to boast but I have over a dozen pages of friends! We all like to make new friends and for me no disrespect to my other friends but I love getting friend requests from people from the UK! Or seeing someone is from the UK, there are not many of us 'active' UK citizens on Mylot so it's a lovely surprise when new ones appear or even old ones return and request friendship.

Hi guys! I hope you don't mind me butting in. I'm just new here in mylot and trying to get a grip on how things work here. I only have one friend as of now, the one who referred me to this site. I know I look like a loner, pitty little me. Well, I hope you guys could help me around if it's not too much to ask. Cause it looks to me that you're all a bit of an expert here already. Any help would be greatly appreciated..

humbug, we must have come back at about the same time. i come and go all the time. i've been on longer this time then any other time in the past few years... yeap.. years.. I Wonder about some of the people i've met here too that i dont see anymore. but i think a lot of the more active friends i've had have come into trouble at mylot and are not the same names anymore, and i'm confused when they speak to me like i know them! lol. or they have just stopped coming.. *shrug* I had more fun when i was on more often, but i hadn't had the time or wanted to put the effort into sorting through discussions till recently! oo i always need to take breaks from mylot.. i dunno why. i get bored, or i keep reading the same things! And i have noticed there are only a few people left on my list that are making new discussions. I have most notifications off though, so i see most of the discussions friends make in the just under the friends started tab on the discussion page.

Actually, I was the one who is always being invited!lol.This happens when I post a discussion that they find it is really useful to them.This is a socialization site, so one of the things that we can do here aside from making discussions is to interact,mingle and make friends with other members of the site.I cannot count the number of fiends I have already, not to boastfully say, when I open my account in the site, there is always a friend request,even without checking its background, I easily approve the invitation. It is really good to make friends here.They are always there to support you every time you will encounter some problems.happy mylotting!

Hi Humbug, I believe we met just the other day for the very first time, your lack of activity of late would explain that one now. Notifications are fine except when they come in blocks of ten all from the same person then I rather lose the will to look at them

I havent sent a friend request as of yet. But if people send me them i always accept! Id love to make some more new friends on here. Even though its just over the internet their help and advice is really important to me! Its nice to know that if I have a problem i can make a discussion about it and people will comment. I have had some really great advice from people on Mylot, and some really comforting comments! So yes i hope to make more

Hi Humbug, am glad you have said this as when I first started here which must be just over a year ago too, my email box was inundated with emails from my friends here on mylot, now I do get a few but not as many as then, I do know ther was and still is a friend of mine who found new pastures but also pops in here now and then even though she doesn't seem to make any discussions or responses to anyone..yes there has been problems with a few of my friends but they have always come back but it seems like maybe others have found elsewhere to go or other things to do which gives them less time on mylot, sbut still am here my friend am not going to go away, I value your friendship too and it's good to have you back! hugs LoLo xx

Hey there humbug25, and no I'm not really looking for new friends they usually look for me for some reason, I dont usually have to ask to often for friends here I mean put in a friends request, though I have a few times in the past, but not lately thankfully. besides anyone who request me as a friend will be getting one of the most active mylot friends and I wont spam you or give you a bad rating so it won't be a hassle to have me on there list, so thankfully I dont have to put much effort in requesting friends lol, but off line is another story.

Hello humbug! I have been away here for a few months too and I just got back here last week. I got so busy that I have no time to respond to my mylot friends. Eventhough I got away, I never erased the notifications from mylot about my friends new discussion because I know I will go back here and I will respond to them all. It's good to have new friends here so I actually accept some friend requests with those members whom I know where active here through the number of their posts and the time they were here.

Well Humbug, I'm up for an add if you like. I have to say of all the social sites I belong to, I have never asked anyone to be my friend. I think it's fear of rejection. All the friends I've made come from others approaching me. So approach away Humbug. xoxo Cyne

I don't mind adding new friends but some of them are not as active as everyday. that's why sometimes i just wait until they reach a certain level. i prefer to constantly be friend with the oldies and veterans of mylot. well, sometimes i do go back to those people and add them.i have also received a lot of notifications already from my friends

Hi, I had sent you the friend requests now.. Hope you accept this too.. I also like to have as many friends as possible. I also attend the friends discussions and also i check the discussions in the no responses tab too.. Because i want to get more friends here. I will always be happy to see the first response in my discussions. Hope you too be happy with my first response... Have a great day... (So, all the friends while you start becomes inactive??????)

Hi I'm very new to mylot (3 days old) and i like it so much... Its really interesting and informative. I have just one new friend in mylot other than that all the others are my office pals. I wish to make new friends from different parts of the world through mylot... :)

I have only been here a few days and have not asked anyone to be a friend yet, but several have asked me and I have accepted - the more the merrier, Isay! I came on here, like a lot of people, because it was a paying site and I figured I may as well get paid for the ridiculous amount of time I spend in my nocturnal computer habits! But I am learning its actually kind of fun to meet all these people and join in with discussions.