changing you for the better

Ireland
September 2, 2009 6:58pm CST
if you could change one thing about yourself either physically or personality trait what would it be and why?
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6 responses
@Graceekwenx (3162)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
i have looked back at who ive been to others. I know i have become a better person thru my friends, families and colleagues. One thing i hate about myself though is the way i demean people who owes me money. There is no problem with loaning them money when they needed it but when it comes to payback time and they still have not paid up... man! do i really get nasty?! I dont know if i have to right to be really mean especially if these people starts to hide and not answer my calls or messages. I wish there could be some other way wherein i could get the results i needed without being too spiteful. I only hope that people out there would understand me as i am only protecting my assets not to mention the sweat and tears that i had to come up just to lend people money when they badly needed it.
• United States
3 Sep 09
People didn't ever pay me back either :/... And I figured, if I were the one borrowing money, I wouldn't disrespect my friend like that by dodging calls and messages so i see it as a sign of disrespect. Eventually, I just stopped lending my friends money. I give you the same advice, it's really the best solution.
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
Yes you are right there. I would never ever ever lend money to anyone ever again.
@arystine (1275)
• Philippines
24 Dec 09
If there's one thing I could change about myself, I guess it would be how to control what I feel and what I say whenever my temper is flaring. You see, I tend to do things or say hurtful words whenever I am angry or emotional. Unlike other people who are patient and can control their emotions, I'm the type who looks transparently angry when mad, who looks bothered when problematic. What you see is what you get. Maybe this is good, but I think sometimes I should control what I feel so that I will not say things that I'll end up regretting saying.
@goddey1 (129)
• United States
3 Jan 10
One thing i would like to change if not erase from my personality is my been inconsiderate to people's inner feelings. Most times, when people close to me are going through tough times, i exhibit this character and when am being reminded of this, i feel very ashame of myself knowing fully well that am hurting not just others but also myself.
• China
3 Sep 09
I would like to change my body.I would like to learn how to do Superman.I can fly.Titanic.I can fight bad guys.Can save the weak and at-risk people.Can protect the Earth.
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
whoa! that would be so much responsbility.
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
I would like to change my being procrastinator.I tend to put off things I can do now tomorrow.while I try to change,I can't seem to let go of this habit.I would also like to keep in touch with friends more.I have some friends I should keep in touch with but for some reason we lost communication.
• United States
3 Sep 09
#1 would be my paranoia, I'd give a lot just to change that. Currently working on a book about conspiracy theories, could make me rich though. #2 would be completely physical. I want my pre-pregnancy stomach back.
@becky01 (81)
3 Sep 09
It's a tough call. Either choosing to be a bit thinner (although this almost seems like a wasted wish because I can do it myself with effort) or I would change my personality to make me become one of those people who always seize opportunities. In fact I could probably do that with a bit of effort too! Probably the second one if I had to choose. What about you?