STOP domestic vioLence..

@janebeth (2032)
Philippines
September 3, 2009 9:35pm CST
last night i saw the news on the television, the common-law wife of Ex-governor Chavit Singson was being battered by him and i saw her face, she was so ugly that time, full of black eyes and all that mess on her face, and note he used a whip to hurt her then slap her so much. the whip he used was the whip he used to his very huge tiger, what does Chavit think to her wife, a tiger?? so rude.. even if he caught her common-law wife with another guy, he has still no right to do that.. she is still human and their are not legally married so why hurt her that way?? can't we stop this problem on our society?? i have heard a lot of violence on other countries, and most of them are only their helper domestic helpers), they have no right to do it.. they need to be punished and let them suffer like hell..!! women are precious, so don't destroy their precious faces.. husband out there, are you doing this to your wife?? what can you say about this problem?? have you experienced this thing?? be open and happy myLotting to all of you.!
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@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
4 Sep 09
Ive been in an abusive relationship.. physically, emotionally, and sexually. I kicked his @$$ to the curb the first chance I got!
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Sep 09
hi zoey good for you you didnt wait to be killed or murdered you got out in time smart thinking.
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
that's very smart of you zoey, can't believe that he dares to do it with you.. good for him, but it's better if he got more.. like you cut his ___, ...
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
4 Sep 09
hi jane. it does not matter if the couples are married or just living-in together. still a man has no right to hurt the woman. i know and you also know about the law. what i hate about chavit is, he still has guts to face the public and talks about what he did to the woman, "buti nga hindi ko pinatay" which he tries to tell that she should be thankful for what he just did and not kill her.
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
, yes i hate when he quote that word.. he has no right to kill a person, so he better be prison or be killed also.. ggrrr, the nerves.!! yes you are right there, but it really differs if you are legally married..
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
yes you are right there, he need to be punished..
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
why there are boys like that?? why can they dare to hurt their partners??
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Sep 09
janebeth this is a very good discussion. I hate seeing women battered. No Ihavent experienced it in my own life as my husband was a very kind loving man. but Ihave seen other women who have been battered.I told them to get to a shelter for battered women,if you havekids take them with you but get out. the life you save maybe you own.
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
yes hatley you are right there, you are so lucky because you have a very kind husband.. and poor ladies out there because they experienced such a sad way of being love to the person who done it.. yes, better to go with a shelter or go home with your parents, they should stop this now..
4 Sep 09
Hi janebeth, First of all why are they allowing this brute to whip a tiger/ that is animal crulty of a worst kind, never mind his partner, she can leave him, this man should be jailed for a very long time, what is wrong with these people? I wish I could get at him, I'll give him the same thing he give his tige and his wife. Tamara
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
yes tamara, i can't imagine people doing that kind of behavior, i am so sorry for the wife for having a stupid husband.. if we can also do the same to them, i will surely do it..
• China
4 Sep 09
quarrel maybe normal between couples,but fight should think over,once you fight you wife ,the relationship must be over.so no matter what happen between couples,sit down calmly and have a chat first.if can't live together anymore,divorce,only remember,don't fight!
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
hi all, yes you have a poit there, you can end it up without hurting your wife.. you can talk peacefully and not by hurting her.. so bad, he has a very bad attitude.. thank you..
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
i don't have a first-hand experience of domestic violence. there are so many things in the news about this actually, i am sure, but some women are just afraid to come out and do legal actions against their husbands/boyfriends. i should stand up for my right, if ever that happens to me. God forbid!
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
i agree with you, there are a lot of women out there who experiences like this but they are afraid to come out, and that is very bad to hear.. i hope they can fight their partners and let them learn a lesson.. so sorry for them.!!