What do You Think of women more often make friends with male friends ?

@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
September 3, 2009 10:33pm CST
I want to know your views about this all. My sister 13 year old age. She is now being experienced. She is more comfortable and happy to play, together with male friends than female friends. What it wrong ? or look like a bad girl ?
3 responses
• China
4 Sep 09
Actually I have both male and female friends. When I am playing with male friends, I do not have to think about more, just be happy to play and no need to consider many things, also the male friends will take care of me. But with female friends, I have to pay attention to many details, such as what I should not say or say in that way, what kind of things I cannot talk about with she, and so on. Because girls are really easy to take things serious, and most of them are not generous in many aspects. Maybe the male friends will feel angry about you for some resons, but next time when you go out with them, they will not remember, they will just take you as a really good buddy. While what girls will act is quit the contrary.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 09
Thanks, indie to your answer. may I ask ? should any competition among girls ?
• United States
4 Sep 09
I am one of those girls. I have always been more comfortable around males than I am around females. I have had female friends all my life but after we got to a certain age (11 or 12, if I remember right) girl-girl friendships became very competitive. Who's prettier? Who do the boys like better? Who has more friends? Who has the better clothes/hair/skin/figure? But girl-guy friendships are just about being friends. With my guy friends it's always been about watching television and movies, listening to music, talking about television/movies/music, asking one another for advice on romantic issues... In college especially, I spent a lot of time being the "token girl" in a group of guys. 90% of the time it was me and five or six guys everywhere we went. We'd go to dinner together, go to parties together, watch movies....whatever and it was always me and the guys. I was "one of the guys" and, since I was also in a sorority (by a very strange series of events), it was a tremendous relief to be able to get away from the girly drama now and then, and just be myself with the guys.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 09
OOO ... thanks to answer .. now I know why my sister more comfortable with his male friend ...
• India
4 Sep 09
NO it can't be said like this generaly it is real fact that there is an mutual attraction b/w the negative and positive charges as we seen in electrical. so in real life it is the simillar case that you have seen but here is a limit which can't be crossed.... so always keep in mind this is what i have advice is in frankly mood so don't mind............. HApPy myloting............