Would you care to listen to any kind of problems?
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
September 4, 2009 1:29am CST
Hello guys, whenever we have a big problems that we think we could never find anymore solution of it,we can think of anything that could even just comfort us. Sometimes we go on anything would help just to forget that problem for a while...but some of us thinks of someone whom they could just be trusted and let that problem be out.
We don't matter if we could find the expected solution or not for as long as we have a good listener who is willing to listen everything.
Are you a good problem-listener?
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8 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
6 Sep 09
Yup, i love to listen to problems and be trying to solve them as well.. hehe ^_^ MY favourite problems will be love problems.. haha =D I just like listening to their stories, ups and downs in the relationship, before sharing some experiences with them to get over it.. hehe ^_^
I like to listen, and i wont be interrupting much till they have finished what they wanna say.. Thus, i always have frenz whom come to me, whenever they have such problems.. hehe
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
8 Sep 09
hha =D Since it's the same old story, i will be giving the same old advice as well.. hehe 
Be it they are contented or not, i'm just doing my part of voicing out my thoughts on that particular matter, and be someone for them to vent all their sadness, unhappiness, frustrations on.. lol =D
Be it they are contented or not, i'm just doing my part of voicing out my thoughts on that particular matter, and be someone for them to vent all their sadness, unhappiness, frustrations on.. lol =D@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
Aha! I guess a good problem listener and an adviser also..he he he two shots in a row..well I guess it must be your talent that you have that quality I like that,, but what about if those person would always come to you and keep on telling his/her same problem,(same person)..would still care to listen...? well maybe he/she was not contented with your advise...he he he he thanks for responding anyway my friend...
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@faith15 (3)
• Australia
4 Sep 09
Sometimes a person talking about their problems to another and having them just listen can help the person to arrive at a solution. I'm learning more about what being a good listener is about. I believe that being a good listener means to give the person you are listening to your full attention and to be compassionate to their needs even if you perhaps have different views etc. It is feeling where that person is at and being empathetic to their problem or situation with no judgements. Although it sounds easy to do sometimes it can be hard to do. Also I think listening takes practise. I'm trying to be a better listener.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
Yes. Well said. But how about if those problem were always been repeated with also same person, would you still care to listen patiently. Would it be so boring to hear? Well maybe it would, but perhaps the fellow has that problem. I think we force to hear just to comfort our friend...am I right? he he he he thanks my friend and welcome to mylot...
@faith15 (3)
• Australia
7 Sep 09
Yes, at times it can be a bit annoying listening to the same thing over and over but if you think back to a time when you were having a problem I'm sure you will see that you perhaps repeated yourself a bit too. Alot of us tend to do this when we are under alot of pressure. I guess it is really placing yourself in that persons shoes.
I try to get the person if they are repeating to focus on some of the good points of the situation as all situations have some good in them. Also I try to get them to think about why the problem is happening. A bit of digging can help to give fresh insight. But yes part of being a good friend is listening in all circumstances. Thank you for the welcome!
@markroderick (887)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
Of course especially if my friends have problems. i really love to listen and give some advices or if they need my help. i really go out of my way for them.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
As what other said, how about those repeated problems with the same person, would still have a patience to listen? Would it be boring? Thanks for responding...
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
Yes my friend. Even if those problems that always been repeated with same person? Thanks for responding again my friend...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I do tend to get a little irritated if it's the same thing over and over. Problems don't just go away by talking about them. I think that it's good to but there also has to be action taken to get rid of it. I am honest with my friends about this too.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
well, i'd like to think that i am a good listener...hehe
but you know, as far as i know myself, i know i can listen to my friends whenever they have problems...i can be here for them, and if possible, i am also willing to give some advises...and my shoulder is always ready for them to cry on....
even how big the problem or even on some non sense, i can lend my ears to my friends...if that's the only way to help them find relief...i am always more than willing to help!
have a nice day my daddy friend!
even how big the problem or even on some non sense, i can lend my ears to my friends...if that's the only way to help them find relief...i am always more than willing to help!
have a nice day my daddy friend!1 person likes this
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
Yes my dear hija, I know how good listener are you. But, how about what other said, repeated kind of problem by the same person, does your ears could afford to listen always, can your shoulder could still carry those cryings? he he he he yes I know you could still do it..thanks for responding again...
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
haha...and you already answered for me!
well, like what you have said, i think i can still or i will still lend my ears, and have my shoulder for my friends...even if its always the same thing they are talking about! haha...i have no limit in listening to my friends...coz i know that that's the least that i can do for them...listen.
thanks daddy for that! hehe i miss it from you...hahaha just kidding!
well, like what you have said, i think i can still or i will still lend my ears, and have my shoulder for my friends...even if its always the same thing they are talking about! haha...i have no limit in listening to my friends...coz i know that that's the least that i can do for them...listen.
thanks daddy for that! hehe i miss it from you...hahaha just kidding!
@med889 (5940)
•
4 Sep 09
I am a good listener to problems but a very bad listener to repeated problems by repeated person. I have a friend, she always has problem with life and complains a lot so at first I used to listen to her but now she is a bit too much because I told her that one cannot complain about life so much, we should give life a chance at least to make us happy then we can talk about it.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
Yes I got what you mean. You're right. It would be so boring listening same problem with same person...I never thought of that...Thanks for responding...
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
11 Sep 09
Until recently I was working as online counselor and had to address many a problem of people. This forced me to be more patient in listening and knowing their problems. And fortunately or unfortunately I had to listen to all kind of problems within my cannon.
