who are you afraid of?your mom or dad?

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@acie_21 (5640)
Philippines
September 5, 2009 12:40am CST
heheheh!funny question..huh?me im afraid of my mom..me and my sister does..lol! not my brother..its really true..the saying.."boys are closer to their mom,while girls are closer to their dad".... me and my sister can make jokes on our dad..our dad is like or bestfriend.. we can speak our minds to him..but when it comes to our mom...we must learn how to show respect all the time... and when me and my sister wants to go out our dad is very ok with it.. while our mom needs to know where we going..who are we with..what time are we going home....or sometimes she will not agree to what dads decision...so it ends ups where not going out..lol!heheheheh!but our mom is kind..we know she loves us but she doesnt show it by actions...lol!but we know its for the better of her children.. she is like my bestfriend too...when it comes to girls talk...and house and clothes..she is still the best mom in the whole world...with out her..there will be no us..! how about you? please do share!
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@preethaanju (3000)
• India
5 Sep 09
Yes i was very scared of my dad. He used to drink. SO when he was drunk he was wild and ferocious. I got good thrashings from him many times and have sometimes pissed in my pants hehehe.. But my mom is vry loving, like all mothers. She is gentle and never beat me once i love my mom thx
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@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
really..my dad never had vices..since my mom and dad got married.... i love them both so much.. my dad is very conscious about his health.......
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
5 Sep 09
I'm actually more afraid of my mom!! lol =D Because she's always at home, and she's the more stricter parent.. hehe ^_^ THough she does give me alot of freedom, but i'm not to abuse it either.. lol =D If there's anything she's unhappy about, she will then complain to my father, and he will punish me.. haha =D Thus, if i dun make my mom angry, there will be no complains, and thus i will be spared.. lol =D Though my father is the one melting the punishment, but it's my mom whom told him, thus i'm more afraid of my mom.. lol =D Luckily, this does not happen anymore as i'm already an adult.. haha =D
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
yes ...ofcourse your an adult now.... lol!how old did your dad stopped spanking you??kun... only child?
@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
8 Sep 09
When i'm about 13-14 yrs old?? lol =D Right now, i'm the one whom 'spank' others instead of them spanking me.. lol =D
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
hahahah!yeah really?you ..spank children? why whats your reason?lol! what was their fault?
@janebeth (2033)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
hi acie, when i was a kid i was very afraid of my father.. the way he talk really makes my heart ache, .. i just can't stand along on his face and his voice.. they are very strong and i think if he will punish me, i will be surely dying after.. janebeth.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
hi there janebeth.. oh really..why?are you not close with your dad..? how come....? was he far away..i mean working from another country..? may i know why?... thanks for sharing!...
@janebeth (2033)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
no he is not.. well, he is just really strict.. very very strict, like he don't want me to wear a sleeveless or even wearing a mini skirt, he is very conservative.. i love him but i can't hold on the way he treat me..that's why i am afraid of him..
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
20 Sep 09
oh i see..are you the only child..? or only daughter?... or the youngest in the family?...
@taztheone (1726)
• India
9 Sep 09
I'm neither afraid of my mom nor my dad. I love both of them & since my dad & me were like friends & my mom is too loving, I never had a situation so that I'll become afraid of them. Ya if I had done something wrong, I would be afraid to face them for the time being but it would be alright after sometime . Happy Lotting
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
thanks taztheone.... what bad things did you do that your parents were so mad at? keep sharing! friend.... have a good day!
@taztheone (1726)
• India
9 Sep 09
Since childhood, I was someone who always does a lot of mischief. Many at-times my mom used to shout at me for all my mischief. Starting from breaking the glass of the window to my girlfriends, there were many incidents where I was a little afraid to face them
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
lol..you mean you slept there? heheheheh!...you came late or something? cheers!
• China
6 Sep 09
hi there, i really like my mom! but she was die 7 years ago, i missed her so much! my dad is strict when i was a boy,but i know he loved me it is the way to show his care to me... good day
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
hi mohanmode.... welcome to mylot...! strict in what way? thanks!hoped you keep dropping by!
• China
6 Sep 09
shout loud at me if i mess things up. but i always have different points with him, at least i think i am right on most of the points. thanks
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
thats ok...whats important you know that they loved you..and its for the better... thanks! keep mylotting!
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
Hello acie good morning you have a nice topic....with me, of course I would have to go to my mother whatever I have something to ask or asking permission from going out with my friends..I prefer to go first to my mother than to my father but I love them so much. Because they were a good provider to us and responsible parents to us....cheers!
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
hi mobhomeir...thanks for the appriciation.. now that im married i have my own decissions... my hubby is very ok where ever i like to go..as long as he knows where im going.. and as long as i know my limitations in life as a married person... thanks!
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
You made more to admired you...it's my pleasure...keep it up
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
thanks friend..keep in touch ok? take care! care bear!heheheh!...
@flagella08 (5067)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
im not afraid.it's just that i don't want them to worry or get angry with any of us siblings. the house used to be so messy whenever the two of them gets irritated to all of us. i just refrain from dragging them to get their belts and be on us. in short we just need to be good girls and good boys.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
hehehe..but who is more strict?your mom or dad? thanks!
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• Philippines
7 Sep 09
well o think mom is more strict most of the time. since im a girl she made it sure that im behaving like a girl should. If mom is very stick it means we are not on proper track. We cannot change for mom we just had to ultimately come into proper manner. anyways she'd appreciated all the good deeds that we had and that's the most important among all. But I always have an open mind so i always try and talk to Mom and nicely discuss what things she would like me to change and show her that I am responsible enough to handle certain things. Being open and honest is really a great way to avoid fight over certain stuff.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
brave of you...me and my sister cant even talk to her if she doing the wrong thing..ends up telling our dad ..and he will be the one to talk to mom... when she clarifys this to us..we end up speechless!and scared...heheheheh!
@joygracia (1326)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
definitely my dad. He`s the aristocratic type. Like every thing should fall on to his order.. My moms the easy and calm one.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
heheheheh!...thanks for posting joygracia.. when it come to hanging out with friends..? whats your curfew?.... is that ok with your dad? thanks! keep sharing!...
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
heheheheh!...thanks for posting joygracia.. when it come to hanging out with friends..? whats your curfew?.... is that ok with your dad? thanks! keep sharing!...
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
hello acie my best... well, when i was younger, say when i am in my elementary days, im afraid of my father because he don't talk much but just hit me when i do something wrong... hehe and with my mom, im close to her but still im afraid to make her mad coz her pinch is really painful! haha but as i grow older, when im on my highschool, im not really that afraid to them coz they don't hurt me anymore...haha they just give me some advises and nagging sometimes...but just like your mom, my mom also ask me many things before she lets me go out and even my father do...haha they are like investigators! but when i went to college, finish school, work, get married....hmmm i think situation turns around! haha they are afraid of me now! hehehe just kidding! its just that now, they are already listening to what i am saying and they always ask for my opinion on things now...and even consider it most of the time!
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
15 Sep 09
lol!...good for you..well my dad is ok...but my mom? im still afraid...well..she listen but i dont talk to much to her... and about going out..heheheh!im free as a bird...as long as i ask permission to my hubby..its very ok.dont have a hard time asking permission..my classmates said my hubby is very understanding... good for me... thanks! best!
@xannebull (1800)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
i am most afraid of my mom, i have no problem with my dad, i can do anything but my dad isn't mad at me.. most of the time, i never heard my dad scolded my...unlike my mom, since when i'm still young, she always gets mad at me even when there's nothing to get mad at, even when it's just a simple mistake i made, it seems that it's bigger to her. i've been slapped i've been beaten with belt, wood by my mom when i was still a child, she'd tell bad things about me, negative things to me that is why we are not close with each other and i am not comfortable around her.. this was bad i know, but this is my mom, still she's my mother and i have to respect her inspite of these...that is why i raised my kids closer to me, i've been more careful with the discipline i gave to my children so they grow closer to me and would not hate me.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
me too im much closer to my dad..for he understands us and he is very easy to get along with.. we must take good care of our relationship with our children.. so that when they became a parent someday. they will bring what you had taught them.... that someday they will have children and family of their own.. cheers!
@MrZenic (81)
• Singapore
6 Sep 09
For me, im closer to my dad than my mom. My dad is more friendly and understands me better. My mum is too but she has other ways of expressing it. I love both of them.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
thanks mrzenic.... why how does your mom shows her love too you? i thought mothers are much closer to their sons...
@junmae (1591)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
I am afraid of my dad rather than my mom because my dad is always away so we could not have a bonding unlike my mom she always stays with us thats why we became bestfriends. i always tell her all my problems except my love problems because i am not permitted to have a boyfriend yet althuogh i am 22 already. I always ventilates my feeling with her and really lessen up my luggage. I know that she is always there to listen in my problems thats why i love her sow much and she always supports me in whatever plans I made. I am also close with my dad but not like my mom.
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
hi junmae...not allowed to have a bf? why is that so?.... may i know? thanks friend!
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
Hmm. I think I'm afraid of my mom and my dad. LOL... I'm already 24, I don't live in their house anymore, though, during the weekends, when they ask if I'm going home or not, I still say yes.. because I'm afraid to say NO. LOL... anyway, I love them both, and I know they love us too, but sometimes, I think they forget, that we ( my siblings and I ) are already all adults, all working and all independent.. I think they have a hard time accepting that..
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
yeah i understand that..just like my mom...she still makes decisions for us.. sometimes...but i just listen to her but i do my own decisions.... i have a family in my own... though i know parents are always there just to guide us not to decide... thanks!
• India
6 Sep 09
I ma afaridi of both of them mostlty am afarid of daddy than my mom, beacuse he so strict on all matters in his life ,so i faraid hime mo0re laso respect him moree than anything i know he is doing for my good and more over for my good of my life is it is o so good thnat tnhat of the his capabalites in my life which have beeen relasized me
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
thanks for dropping by sathish!
• Malaysia
5 Sep 09
Im afraid of my mother.She is nice loving person but she is also fierce sometimes and i learn not to say no to her since i was a little kid.I have my brother but i didnt even feel afraid of him,he was very protective acting like my dad but i was very stubborn i dont even listen to him,not until he gives me direct order from my mother lol..
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
how about your dad? thanks for sharing bloodcakelover.... are you the youngest? do you often fight with your brother? keep posting friend!
@killersss (638)
• India
5 Sep 09
yeah that's a funny one, but i am afraid of my dad :) u won't be believing this but my dad has never hit me but stil m afraid of him, don't know why. m not afraid of my mom, i love both :) but my dad sometimes shout, that's why i am afraid of him, his shout's are more than slaps ;) so that's why m scared of him more than my mom, that was a nice one dude, keep it up. happy my lotting :)
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
lol!..thanks killersss.. how many siblings are you in the family? none of you never tried one? good for you.... but when it comes to going out with friends... your dad is ok with that????? did you remember the last time you were scolded and why?heheheh! happy to have you here...
@JamesKYTan (1607)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 09
I am not afraid of my mum. I respect her. I am not afraid of my wife. I love her. For my son, he is not afraid of either his mum or dad, but he is afraid of big, fierce and ferocious DOGS! My wife is not afraid of me but she is afraid of her eldest sister....oops, respect her...lol
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
why?may i know? thanks for sharing jameskytan..
@snoodz (26)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
hi there, i'm an only child, my dad works abroad and so I grew up with just my mom, I'm not really that close to my dad, and whenever he scold me, for me it's nothing maybe because there is no attachment. While with my mom, OMG! my mom is like a dragon when she's angry, that's why whenever i know to myself that i did something wrong, I would cry and tremble, and feel like it's the end of the world for me, she really is a different person when she's angry. But in the lighter side, me and my mom are very close we look like sisters, I just try to avoid things that would really transform her into a dragon. ^^, good day!
@acie_21 (5640)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
lol!thats funny... but you know what living with out a mother is very difficult.. only mothers knows how to show tender loving care,who guides us in our school, who takes good care of us always...who supports are needs... though dads can give that too..but a mothers love is different to a dads love.. dads are very busy on their work...while moms are always there right beside us... she saw her children grows each day.. thats why mothers knows best..... thanks snoodz!