How long was your fight with your friend lasts.......?

India
September 5, 2009 7:45pm CST
Hi, I had many small fights with many of my friends from childhood to till now. After those fights we don't talk to each other for a day or two. After that we talk each other and make friends again. I can feel that the friendship becomes more closer after the simple fights. Do you have any such feelings? What did you fight for with your friends recently? How long it lasts? Who talk first? Have a great day.
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• Philippines
6 Sep 09
Id have some fights with my friend way back then. I didn't expect the out come of the fight and cried, but he apologized but never be-friended him ever again. it's always involve the fights but it depends if friends can forgive and forget.
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• India
6 Sep 09
So, you lost some friends due to fights?? Eventhough he apologised why not be friend again? As he want you to be friend only he is apologised you. I always apologise and forgive my friends after the fights. Actually we become closer after the fights ..lol.. Till now no serious fights, only silly fights with friends...lol... Have a great day.
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I used to fight with a group of people I used to call my friends, but I no longer fight as I no longer talk to them. I did a lot that I wasn't proud of while with them, well maybe not so much a lot but the volumes I felt for what I did makes it seem a lot. I changed who I was, and once I met my fiance and realized he loved me for who I really was, I changed back... and my friends didn't seem to like that, or where I moved to. I've had fights with them in the past when we were friends, made up, but after the biggest fight, and I refused to back down... I just said Bye Ya'll and no longer talk to them.
• India
6 Sep 09
Hi, Saying Bye for all of your friends at once???? So, sad.. If you meet them again, will you talk to them??? Have a great day..
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I, very seriously doubt it. They've hurt me, and insulted me. If they were to say hello to me, I may say hello back to them... but I would not put myself in the position to be their friend again unless I felt that they had changed. Even then, if they were to insult me in anyway I would say seyonara to them again.
• India
7 Sep 09
So, They hurt you too much.. That's very bad.. May i know what seyonara means?? Have a great day..
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@mysdianait (65070)
• Italy
6 Sep 09
Fighting is not worth it and a waste of time. Fighting with friends? How can that happen? Surely if you are really friends then that is to be avoided? I know that when we are younger we have tiffs with out friends but friendships come and gowhen we are young. When we grow older 'friendì' takes ona different meaning and we help each other through battles. If I have a fight with a friend and damage is done to harm the friendship thenit is difficult to patch it up and get back the way we were before. Usually before that situation arises, if we are really and truly friends, then both of us do something to make ammends and not let a fight happen
• India
6 Sep 09
Fight with friends means really not a fight. Just a fake fight for a silly reasons. We then realise our fight ans join again together and having fun like before.. But mostly i don't have fights with just friends. I will fight only with the best friend ..wink.. Because just friend will go away after the fights. But best friend comes closer after the fights. I had have the fights with all of my best friends i have till now..lol.. Have a great day.
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@mysdianait (65070)
• Italy
6 Sep 09
That's it! Friendly 'fights' between best friends are fun. No real damage is done just a lot of teasing and best friends know how to do that sort of 'fight' very well! Have fun posting my friend!
• India
6 Sep 09
Have a happy posting and have fun...
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@taztheone (1726)
• India
8 Sep 09
I always know that fights between close friends never last long. It might last for even a month, but every thing will be alright after sometime, because friends are friends
• India
8 Sep 09
Friendly fights last for a month?? Any way, i am happy to hear that you become friends again after a month.. Yes, friends are always friends.. Have a great day.
@paula27661 (15898)
• Australia
6 Sep 09
I used to have a friend years ago that was not always very nice to me and would put me down with nasty underhanded comments just to make herself feel better because she was quite insecure. I put up with her behaviour for a long time until one day I exploded and told her what I thought of her! It was not the right way to handle it on my part because I should have asserted myself from the beginning. Needless to say we are no longer friends which is no great loss to me; I just wish I handled more maturely.
• India
6 Sep 09
Hi paula, So, you lost your friendship due to your fight. If you lost a friend due to a simple fight, she is not a good friend for you.. So, you need not to worry.. Yes, losing a friend is a great loss.. Have a great day.
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• China
6 Sep 09
i guess u must be a man. as a girl, certainly no fight now, now that i have grown up. but when in the childhood, there might be some small ones with my young brohter, lol...but i cant remember the details now, certainly also dont know how long we fighted then. but that's true, the friendship became closer after some small fights.
• India
6 Sep 09
Hi Yolanda, Yes, i am a man.. We always having some friendly fights among the friends.. No fights last longer than 2 days. But, friendship becomes closer.. I know that girls mostly don't have more friendly fights like us...lol... Have a great day.
@horsesrule (1959)
• United States
6 Sep 09
Through my life I have had friends and we would fight. The fights usually didn't last long and we would be best friends again right away. That was when I was growing up. I don't really have fights with my friends now that I am an adult. Sure sometimes they irritate me but we dont' exactly fight. I did have one lady decide that I was too much trouble to be her friend and she decided we would be friends no longer but we have not spoken again and its been several years. We will not be friends again ever but that is not the same thing that you are talking about in your discussion. I don't get to see my friends as often as I would like too so maybe that is why we don't fight.
• India
6 Sep 09
Hi horserule, Best friends are always fight with each other. It is difficult to hear that your friend decided to cut your friendship and your friendship breaks. So, you gave too much trouble to your friend? or she gave trouble to you? I guess your friend also want to you sometime. So, one of you have to take some steps to initiate the friendship again.. Have a great day...