how to deal with this?
@sunxiaoyang010 (169)
China
September 5, 2009 11:06pm CST
what would you do when a friend of your boyfriend told you he love you?
will you tell your boy friend?
wheather you will refuse him strictly or you will think about it for some time?
4 responses
@chippster (67)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
smile and do nothing. ignore everything, unless you want something to happen - or not.
@sunxiaoyang010 (169)
• China
26 Sep 09
hi chi...
may be you are right, a good attitude which an save me from the trouble.thankyou
@taztheone (1721)
• India
6 Sep 09
It all depends on how much you love your boyfriend. If you are really serious with him, definitely you will say no to that person & tell your boyfriend about this.
If you are not that serious & its just a relation , then its upto you to decide how that person is & whether you like him or not. If you like him, say yes, other wise keep it pending or say no.
Well this happened with me as I liked the girlfriend of my friend & I proposed her. Now she accepted it & dumped her bf
After all its survival for the fittest
After all its survival for the fittest@sunxiaoyang010 (169)
• China
6 Sep 09
thanks for your attention.I love my boyfriend and i will mot leave him.what i am thinking about is that if I told my boyfriend about this ,he may be hurt bucause that man is one of his best friends.And ,i think there is not a wrong love in our world.He has just express his own emotion.should i make my boyfriend hate him as a punishment?
@sh0453221 (2)
• China
8 Sep 09
oh, It is really happen to you? you must be a beautiful and kindly girl since you considered so much for that boy.But I think if you dont love him, you have the right to say NO.Just be yourself.Good luck to you!
@starxing (5)
•
27 Sep 09
i think i will refuse him directly,and i will not tell it to my boyfriend.but if he still pester me after i refuse him,i will think about telling this problem to my boyfriend.we should face this problem together.But i think the premise of all is that i have enough charisma to attract two men.
