When you hurt someone?

@jen14ed (866)
Philippines
September 7, 2009 10:21pm CST
What do you when you unintentionally hurt someone emotionally and they don't give you a chance to explain or apologize. They just write you off w/o letting you explain anythings. What happen?
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4 responses
@adinata (106)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 09
If he does not give me a chance to talk then I will leave him to himself first. Maybe he needed time to be alone and soothe his soul in order to think clearly. When we have found the time to talk then we tell what really happened later apologized. There is a saying apologized immediately after making mistakes. Maybe that's true but sometimes we also need to study the situation, if it is not appropriate moment. we certainly can not force it not? If we are too pushy then maybe not said sorry that we can but it insults him. So we have smart studying the situation and condition ...
@misisbau (317)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
I would probably write a letter/email to that person. If she reads it, fine. If she doesn't, at least I tried.
@hotsummer (10523)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
of course i will feel bad if the person will not give me a chance to say sorry and explain myself and everything. i think every one of us deserve a chance. anyways, i think that we do something else besides saying sorry. we can show our sincerity by doing some favor to the person or by being extra nice. so that the person will see that we really mean that we don't want to hurt the person again. i think that the person will surely like to see action than hear our explanation. cause our actions speak louder than any word.
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
I would feel bad too and probably try to explain it to them even though am not that good with explaining. if the person drives me off then I wouldn't be talking to that person and let time heal itself.probably just cut the bridge