olive branch?

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I dunno what a good subject line is but I think it's kind of fitting...maybe? Either way, I have a cousin that got me into Genealogy a few years ago. Well we had a blow out last summer and some hurtful words were said from her & my hubby to her as I was in tears for a few days over this Genealogy mess. So I quit doing it, I figured it it's this much trouble to have everything "just so" it's not worth the stress from her. I pulled EVERYTHING I had (over 30,000 people in my tree! back to the 900's even) offline to appease her and someone she knew. So we stopped talking other than when something important came up like my Aunt's hubby had a stroke a few weeks ago, I just e-mailed her in general about it and left it at that. & I've e-mailed her a time or two prior. So tonight I receive an e-mail from her saying she was searching for some common surnames in our common trees and found a few things that may be of interest and e-mailed them to me. I have not mentioned anything to her or done any genealogy since june '08. I dunno would you consider this her lil olive branch of peace over this or? I don't know how I should respond to her if at all. I have thought of saying that I had not looked at it in over a year nothing looks familiar and leave it at that. Or just bluntly say haven't looked at it in over a year, I don't need more drama in my life..... but thanks anyway. Or just not respond at all to her. She didn't say much other than listing what she found & where she found it, how she ran across it and hoping all was well. *sigh* What would you do?