does love comes from the heart?

@fheroan (615)
Philippines
September 8, 2009 4:48am CST
Hello there everyone.. well, this question just popped out from my mind when i remembered our biology class when i was a sophomore in high school... our teacher before, asked us if love comes from our heart, of course, we said yes... but she again asked us, "how about those people who have an artificial heart, can they love even though their heart was battery-powered?".. so we all, start thinking that a person in that situation can also love, right?.. so we asked her where does love comes from.. and she told us that it comes from your brain... but well, people have their different own opinions, so i still believe that it comes from the heart... so, How about you?.. where do you think love comes from?... Have a nice day!
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18 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
love never comes from the HEART. your biology teacher is right. let's say for example, you were very much in love with your special someone and for whatever reason, you need to undergo a heart transplant. you can't say that just because your heart got replaced then your love towards your partner will change. it's because it's the brain that dictates every part of our body.
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@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
thanks for agreeing with me angelajoy!!! as for you fheroan, i hope that i made a beautiful explanation to your post... :D
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
Hello elsmarie. You are right. And if you would read my post on this discussion, I said that emotions come from the hypothalamus, which is a part of the brain. People just think that emotions come from the heart because that is where they feel it, but the heart is only an outlet of emotions. Emotions really come from the brain, so having your heart changed wouldn't change the love that you feel for a person.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
yeah, you guys are both right, and now i am clear about this thing that love comes from our brain.. and the heart is just another part of our body that also do actions told by our brain..well, thanks for the response and have a nice day!
@sage09 (35)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
I had the same question when we had our anatomy class.Then my r0mantic idea of cupid aiming for my heart got crushed by science. Our heart is actually a muscle,a pump for the blood. It doesnt make you fall/feel in love. What does is our brain. Love is a mix of the controls and workings of the brain- its parts (mainly the hippocampus, responsible for emotions), neurons, chemicals and hormones. There is really a reason why its the brain that's in our head instead of the heart. It controls everything even our emotions,motivations and desires.BUT i think the heart plays a big part of letting us know that we're in love. With excited signals from our brain, our heart gets pumped up. It beats really fast.It sends blood up to our cheeks for that blush. The blood carries the adrenaline that gives us the rush. So even though it is the brain that falls in love,the heart helps us to tell that we are in love.Hope that helps c:
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
Hello there.. thanks for the response...well, your response is full of new interesting things to learn.. This is the first time i knew that there is a part in our brain known as hippocampus that controls our emotions.. And now i know that, it it our mind which feel in love but it is only our heart who execute an act so that we may feel it.. Well, Have a nice day!
@sage09 (35)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
No prob c; glad that somebody's interested to what i wrote.Thats whats good about mylot,you learn things c;
@sunny68 (1327)
• India
8 Sep 09
the difference is in science and philosophy. scientifically everything related to you is controlled by your brain, not only your thoughts but also movements also. philosophically every thing related to emotions is from heart and logic from brain. science and philosophy are generally at loggerheads with each other. but then somethings do not need to be dissected by science and love is one of them. when you are in love, you skip a heartbeat or your heartbeat becomes fast...so it is a matter that heart decides.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
Hello there..:D Thanks for the response... so, i guess whenever we have questions, we need to find the philosophical and logical explanation of it so that we can learn from them..well, Have a nice day!
@sunny68 (1327)
• India
10 Sep 09
you got it right....every situation demands a different decision. sometimes the brain rules and sometimes the heart.
@linyun (52)
• China
9 Sep 09
I think that love comes from eyes.haha,when at the first time,you will be shocked and attracted by the beautiful at looks.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
lol.. you are really funny, this is the first comment i read in this discussion that made me laugh...lol, so i guess you believe in "Love at first sight".. well, thanks for the response and making me laugh a bit, Have a nice day!
@Xzcess (174)
• India
8 Sep 09
I think the love comes from the brain. Love, technically speaking is a bunch of neural impulses, electric signals which flash n certain areas of our mind when we either think about or see something we really like. For example, in children, they get it when they see their mothers, or their favourite toy. These electrical signals fire up sections of our brain, firing up hormonal glands and parts of brain which control emotional responses. (Yes I always over analyze things :P) Of course all of that cannot explain all the things 'love' in general is supposed to be but I do believe our perception and our emotions are controlled by our brain, so should be the feeling of love. Love coming from the heart I think was an old notion, brought about by the people living centuries ago when they thought heart was the most important organ of the body, not the brain, which was picked up by earlier writers, artists and poets and the symbolism continues to fascinate us to this date.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
Hello there... thanks for the response... Thanks for your sharing your opinion..you might be right too.. coz if you only think that you can love your enemy, you can do it... you can do all kinds of emotions using your brain.. Have a nice day!
@Xzcess (174)
• India
10 Sep 09
Looks like all the bio I studied was for some good after all, Lol. Have a good day.
• China
9 Sep 09
It's really simple ,loves from GOD.And everyone is one part of GOD
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
Wow, this is really a very good answer, i never thought of it, thanks for reminding me that love comes from GOD because He was the first one who loved us from the beginning..well, thanks for the response and have a nice day!...:D
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
31 Dec 09
its now an old saying rather these days, love comes from mind and the guys wallet. now a days, girls are smart enough to check the guys status and then the heart matters. So now, love comes from the mind and ends with heart.
@med889 (5941)
8 Sep 09
I believe love comes from the feelings we have for someone else, and to have feelings we should be able to think about the for and against of any love so we have to use the brain to think and thus I would say that the brain is the first source to start loving and then their is the emotion which gradually takes over by the heart.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
hello there.. thanks for the response too... yeah, we need first our brain to love someone, and the heart is the second one.. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
For me? I believe Love always comes from the heart but the measure on how the person can love that guy/girl depends on how the person feels. we wouldn't really know if the hearts batteries is out, but the energy i think that fuels love is passion and attraction and connection to each partner. or to one who is in-love.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
hello there.. thanks for the response.. yeah love depends on someone, so we don't really know whats the secret behind love and the heart..lol well, have a nice day!
• Malaysia
9 Sep 09
Love certainly comes from the brain. That is a biological fact. When the eye see, the ear hears and the hands touch, nerves sen message to the brain decipher and to compute. If the feelings are good, it is called love. The heart is always romantically linked to love by poets, writers and singers. The films also show us immense loving feelings with the lovers touching each other's heart.We have been duped!
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
Hi there.. well, thanks for the response.. yeah, your right, biologically speaking, love comes from our brain, but still because of movies and any other media materials we have, we know that it comes from our heart..lol.. i wonder if we were to give a valentine's card to our special person, and the one drawn into the card is a brain, i think thats gonna be a bit wacky..lol.. well, have a nice day!
9 Sep 09
love is come from the emotion of a certain person...
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
Hello there.. thanks for the response... Your right too, love is an emotion that every person feels.. Have a nice day!
@wushang (25)
• China
8 Sep 09
Love is a kind of feelings.Maybe it comes from heart.When you see the person you love,your heart rate will accelerate.And when you are falling out of love,you will feel sorrow.Just like the heart is broken.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
Hello there.. Thanks for the response.. your right, we feel love by our heart because it beats fast when someone is in love.. Have a nice day!
• India
9 Sep 09
hi fheroan this is santosh, n the answer for the question in my point of view is heart as iam a science student. But we can feel that in our heart. Whenever we see our beloved ones or thought of them our heart starts beating fast n we feel excited n different and we are ready to do anything for them. I was experienced too this feeling. Its strange feeling but nice.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
hello there.. Thanks for the response.. well yes, it will be much better if a science student explain such things..lol.. what can an IT student like me know about these kind of things.. i only the brains and the heart of a computer..lol..:D well, have a nice day!
@forptc (287)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
Well technically it comes from our brain. Yes, as you've mentioned, your teacher is correct and did have a point. It's biology anyway so looking at it through that point of view, it does come from the brain, with love being a series of signals affecting our thinking and being more of an involuntary reaction of our body to certain events. But the term "love coming from the heart" is merely figurative. We could say that it has been interpreted a long time ago that love, as an emotion, is felt more right there smack center in our chests and knowing that the heart is located there, they probably kind of thought the feeling DID originate from that spot. True enough, it all depends on how you look at it, and what you believe in. Though for me, love comes from wherever we want it to be. It's a blessing, an opportunity, and most importantly it's a choice. You may feel it at first and you know you didn't choose for it to come but it's your choice if you wanted it to stay or just brush it away.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
Hello there.. thanks for the response.. Your comment is really nice.. it really helped a lot.. And your right, maybe love coming from the heart is just one of those idioms made before... Have a nice day!
@VANILLAREY (1470)
• India
9 Sep 09
Your teacher is right. The heart does not do any thinking. Its only function to pump blood. Its just in poems and love stories that people talk about connection between love and heart. Maybe centuries ago before people knew biology, some idiot thought that love and other emotions came from the heart. Then it was monkey see monkey do.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
Despite what many people believe, love actually comes from the brain, specifically from the part of the brain called the hypothalamus. Find hypothalamus in the dictionary and you will see in the definition that it is the part of the brain where emotions come from. My teacher once joked that it would be more accurate to say "I love you from the bottom of my hypothalamus" than to say "I love you from the bottom of my heart." This is actually not a matter of opinion. It is a scientific fact. So even if you have a heart transplant or you have an artificial heart, your love wouldn't go away because it is in your brain.
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
As I believe... Love Comes From the Soul (Well, We all have our own opinions) Love is a part of life ,as my friends told me, it is a part of life a man can never ever ignore.... I believe that love comes from the soul coz' if u take away the soul of a human, the human body will not operate.... Well... Happy Mylotting
• China
9 Sep 09
whether love is comes from heart is difficult to say.Through my simply thinking,I think the love comes from the heart.Because the heart is a emotion to cause love and hate. When we love somebody,we will have a motivated feeling.maybe you can't understand what I say.