I'm Gay.. so what?

Good luck to you on your date.. I'm straight, but for some reason all my ex boyfriends, when they see me with a man, they shake their heads in disbelief and say taht they thought i'd have been with a girl by now. they are convinced i'm a lesbian. But i'm not.. the look of beautiful girls is nice to gaze at.. but i dont find women sexually attractive. hah. I was once in a gay wedding. i was the maid of honor. its legal here! I hope you find happiness in whatever it is you do!

If it makes ya happy jelly xD Good luck on your date =)

Well I hope you had a nice time. You should do whatever makes you happy. I don't think you're crazy in the least for accepting a date!

Hi Jelly! Full marks to you for such a bold confession. You have to courage to be canded. It is an old discussion, I could see it today. Hope you would have a wonderful and gala time with your lesbian friend. Keep enjoying! Life is too short.

you just have to be true to yourself and not worry about no one else. i have gays in my family and i dont love them any less. each of their own good luck on yout date..

Good for you, there's nothing with i guess since it's common now. frankly am not even surprised by it.that's probably why you're role in the movie is perfect. that's cool, i hope things go well for you, and for me too, costume so damn complicated to make. Have a great day

Well have fun experimenting but I can tell you right now it wont last. People dont just turn gay or lesbian. What you are doing right now is exploring. But trust me if you were really a true lesbian you would have known looooong ago. As a gay man who has faught ignorance and hatred all my life just because of who I am, I can also tell you that I resent people like you who just show up, put on a mask, and declare to the world that low and behold your a lesbian now!! Its fake. Its obnoxious. You are only fooling yourself, and you are setting this poor girl you are dateing up for some serious heart ache. You need to look inside your heart and ask you why you are saying your a lesbian. Here are a few WRONG reasons to "become" a lesbian: 1- Bad experience with men. EVERYONE has bad relationships hunny. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on to the next. You must kiss many frogs befor you find your prince. 2- Peer pressure. Just because a girl thinks your attractive, dosent mean you have permission to play with her heart. Tell her your flattered and leave it at that. Mark my words - you WILL hurt this girl in the end. 3- For ATTENTION. For some reason you feel like you need to get some attention and like a spoiled littele child whos mommy wont buy her a new barbie, you decide to do something shocking so that people will look in your direction. By getting on MyLot and ANNOUNCING that you are now a lesbian, you are just BEGGING for attention. If you truely WERE a lesbian you wouldnt need other people approval to live your life. But for some reaosn you feel the need to let EVERYONE know that your special. Your different. Hunny, you can be special. You can be different. But you dont have to change who YOU ARE to do it. By "changing" who you are, and "becoming" someone else, you cheapen anything about yourself that actually is the REAL YOU. Be honest with yourself. Be honest with this poor girl whos heart you are about to toy with. Are you really, genuinly attracted to women instead of men? Or is there something inside you that feels empty, and your trying to fill it with something other than what you really need?? You cant just flip lesbianism on and off like a light switch. You arent fooling anyone. You are only lieing to yourself, and you are lieing to everyone around you. Im sorry if this sounds harsh, but it needs to be said. And if your honest with yourself, you will know I am right.

"I guess I've just had it with everybody getting married and having wonderful relationships and rubbing it in my face all the time so I'm just fighting back really." I don't understand how being a lesbian is going to solve this problem.

I would say, good luck! When you are happy with it, let it be. Have fun.

if you are happy of being a lesbian, i guess there's nothing wrong with it. if you force yourself of being a true girl dating boys but you are not happy with it, then it's sad to think about it. so go on living with a happy life, follow your heart and i'm sure you are on your right way.

hhhmmm i cannot say more. but hope you find a happy life with what you are having now. we have different decisions in life my friend. and i am just gald you have find a different path and just hoping that you could be happy with that path. so i wish you luck because your happiness is more imprtant than what others may say. jhelai