What is baby blue? Is it a kind of psychological illness?

Indonesia
September 8, 2009 10:29pm CST
Once I have ever heard this term but I am not quiet understand. One of my friend doesn't really like to take care her baby because she looks stress with her baby. Moreover, her husband is not getting along well with her. So, she tends to neglect the baby and leave the baby to her grandmother. Is it a kind of baby blue?
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
9 Sep 09
Baby blues are when the mothers hormones haven't gotten back in balance yet. Some times it last for only a few days and for some women it can last for up to a year or two.
• Indonesia
10 Sep 09
So, it is a matter of hormone. I hope it won't take long..I feel so pity for the baby.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
10 Sep 09
It's not always hormones but usually is. the Dr can help with that imbalance.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
12 Sep 09
Blue blue is the time in the days after birth when the hormones are getting back to normal. The lady might feel tearful and miserable around ten days when her full milk supply comes in. Post natal depression can make a lady really sad. It can come on at any time in the first year after having a baby. Your friend might be upset at not getting on well with her husband. She probably had got post natal depression or she might not have yet bonded with her baby. Some ladies suffer gender disappointment like they wanted a boy and got a girl. I have a baby girl of 11 weeks old, a toddler son of 2 years old and teenage son of 14 years old. I adore my children. Good luck to your friend.
• Indonesia
15 Sep 09
Hope she will recover soon. I feel so sorry for the baby.
@KaraKATAD (246)
• Philippines
9 Sep 09
If I'm not mistaken, baby blues is when the mother is a bit sad from having the stress of the baby around. It's not an illness, it's just a state of mind, and it's a phase that a lot of new mothers go through. She will get over it soon and she will come back to her husband and to her baby. Just support her now and I'm sure everything will turn out alright.
• Indonesia
10 Sep 09
I hope she will recover soon because I feel so sorry for the baby.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 12
I don't know about it. I am wondering about this thing too so I did some research about it but I don't really get complete understanding about it because I just do online researching. It said that baby blue can be vary depends on a mother's mental condition. Some will feel very sad, some will feel very angry.. But I never heard of people who got baby blue neglects their children.