Will you stay or will you go?

You have hit the nail on its head. I too would behave in a different situation different if I am not the one at the receiving end. It is really easy to advice others and not do the same yourself. I think, if the same happens to me, then I will really get pretty upset about it and want it not to happen of course. I would want to happen all that goes well for me.

i've not said to any one to leave their partner, but we can all make calls but when it comes to us doing it it's a different story. we need the strength to walk away, plus consider what/who else is involved.