Is it your attitude shouting foul words whenever you got angry?

i don't think it is attitude, it is the lack of it. such people do not think what they are saying, they simply burst out. it once happened with me in real life. i patiently listened to his rantings and after he cooled down, i re-explained what i had said. he got the point and was embarrassed by his behavior.

Sometimes, like tonight i just told my mom on the phone i am going when i got upset about something that she didn't remind me of. i went home, i was so pissed. i am just trying to rest here for the moment.

I don't know how many people know this or agree with this but I believe in the power of the tongue. Meaning there is something that happens every time we utter words, whether positive or negative. I am not saying I don't say negative things, but as much as possible, I try to avoid saying those things. I do not shout or say foul words, I do not say negative things or degrading things about a person. I do not believe in the chant " Sticks and stones may hurt my bones but words will never do" Yes, words may not hurt you physically but it hurts a person mentally and emotionally and those hurts are not easy to heal. I should know, it took me quite a long time to recover from what other people said against me. I don't want to be one who will cause pain to others.

I guess I have used a foul word or two when I've been super mad. There are certain words that I never use though. I also never let strangers hear me say them..lol

Yes, I do. Fortunately, it tends to happen more when I'm alone. I'm awfully embarrassed and I think it's very disrespectful to be shouting profanities around other people, be them close to you or not, so I quickly try to mute my voice under annoying situations. When I'm alone however, I don't really hesitate much in doing it, just so that if nothing else it works a bit as stress relief... even though I should probably try to find other methods to attain that said relief.

Well when I'm really really angry I do have the tendency to swear a little bit. usually I swear under my breath though, so people won't hear me or get offended. I also sometimes make swear words into normal words like "FUDGE MUFFIN!" or "YOU MOTHER FATHER BROTHER SISTER COUSIN!" and it helps me get my anger out. Actually bad words aren't "bad" unless you curse some one, otherwise they're just words. ^^

Yeah, unfortunately there are times that I do yell out in anger. Mostly it is while I am driving. That makes me the angriest of all when I am driving in the car and someone is just rude. I am getting much better at this tho. I think that as you get older you can hold it more to a minimum.

I don't shout anything when I am angry, nor do I call someone names, but I will mutter something foul under my breath, or express my feelings quitely to someone who understands, using some foul language to make my pooint. If i am really mad and there are people around, I'll swear quietly in a foreign language which they don't understand.

i never use bad words ever when i am angry or in a depressive mood. Its becoz , from the starting onwards its my habit not to bring out bad words from my mouth, these are the basic teachings taught to a student in school and by parents in home. the people who uses these words while quarelling or when being angry are those who have seen this in their lives before as may be thier parents or neighbours used to do that.

I have gotten into the bad habit of using foul words some of the time when I get angry, sometimes it is more effective in certain situations and other times I don't have any words left to express my anger. I refrain from doing it around small children, I used to do it around my own kids but they understood they were not to repeat those words and never did. A lot of the time, it depends on who I'm around when I use it a lot, for instance, I worked in a grocery store and did not use swear words at all, but working in a factory, that is how everyone talks and it just happens.

I used to do that before. But lately I have learned how to control my feeling when I am angry. In fact, I have learned to control my anger. Usually when there is something wrong may it be a person or a situation, I think first and find a reason not to get angry rather than get angry right away. By doing this, I learn how to control and likewise refrain from shouting or saying any foul words. I find this very healthy and great.

Hello Martin, Foul word as in (P.I.?..the common bad word in our language?) NO...i never use that word...but,i don't think words such as " fool...idiot..crazy.." is a foul word...unless addressing to the right person. It is like saying criminal or murderer to the right crime the person has been done. But,im not using it to express my anger....i do say "fool to a person when he/she really acted like a fool".It is just to let him/her know that she looks or acted like a fool. I don't say anything when i am angry amigo. When i feel angry or very much upset and even mad...i am more silent.You will never hear anything from me.Becoz,i don't want to regret words once vomitted,it can never be swallowed.So,i always keep myself in composure and be silent,i am always like that.Then,after i had regained all my consciousness...there i will burst out all my sentiments. As far as i know,i am not the kind of person who uses bad words...it won't help.

I do sometimes but when Im alone because first and foremost, I think you have to respect yourself. I'm not ultra conservative but I think if you do that, it reflects poor anger management skills.

I'm the one in minor percentage who almost never shouts foul words when I get angry.Perhaps it's because i'm well educated since I was a child,heheheeh.Everyone could get angry duo to a lot of factors,But I don't think giving a lesson to sb with foul words is a proper way,instead,you could get the opposite result,.So whenever I get angry ,I may yell at him/her,but I never use foul words.The point is to make sure he/she won't make some mistake or do wrong things again.

I can get very angry but I will not use foul words everytime though because first of all I will not waste my time to swear at someone and secondly I will not hurt the person also and finally ignorance is much more better.

I get angry most of the time but I never utter foul words especially the 'F' word. I may something to the extend of 'damn', 'sh*t' or something less than that. I don't see the point of shouting those kind of words. I use other method to vent my anger, not by shouting. And you're right, we're setting bad example to children.

I don't get angry easily. Maybe this is due to my age. Age has mellowed me. When I was younger I get angry so easily and I'd show it to everybody. But to use bad and foul words is not my style. I would normally just be nagging under my breath and will hit things and slam doors. That's about it. No foul language leave my mouth.

well yes, i do use foul words when i am very angry. but it's not my fault because when i get angry i don't know what i am saying and what are my actions, i lose my mind at that time and do what i shouldn't do. but when i realize that i have done that i really feel bad, and do say sorry to whom i was shouting.