Maintaining the friendship isn't even worth it..

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So I have this 'friend' whom I've known for around 14 years. We weren't especially close until this past year when I moved back to my hometown and in with my boyfriend. However, over the past 8 months that we've sparked up our friendship, I really feel like it's not worth it. There have been a lot of factors, but the most recent was when he called me up late one night because he's been in a minor car accident while drinking and driving and needed a designated driver to get him home. Of course I came through for him, but now almost a month later I haven't seen him even once. He calls periodically and texts sometimes to make tentative plans, but he's awful about following through on plans so I've given up on him unless it's a spur of the moment thing and we're both there and ready to go. He's always telling me how I'm his best friend, and how much he adores me, but honestly I feel like I'm just being used when he needs help. I discovered that he's gone camping and out for coffee several times with a mutual friend in the past month and hasn't once offered to do the same with me. I'm a little fed up. Everytime in the past I've brought up that he's not being a good friend he and everyone says I'm overreacting and I should just understand that that is how he is. So maybe it's just time to give up on the friendship altogether?