How do you know if your partner is mature?

United States
September 10, 2009 12:46am CST
I dated someone much younger than I but I broke up with him because I felt he was immature? What are some signs of male maturity?
4 responses
• United States
10 Sep 09
There are lots of signs for maturity in a guy. Such as being able to assess how to act in a situation, being able to keep his cool when things get rough, is intellectual, ready for commitment, etc. There are mature guys out there too, they may be hard to find, but they exist.
• United States
10 Sep 09
What if the guy is 20 and you are 35?
• United States
10 Sep 09
Those signs still work! I basically just repeated all of the mature factors my boyfriend has and he is 20 at the moment. I know finding mature guys at age 20 is certainly not easy but it is possible. My boyfriend is incredibly mature of his age, so that list still works :p
• United States
10 Sep 09
Thank you for your response. You have been most helpful.
@med889 (5941)
11 Sep 09
A man is mature when he takes up his responsibilities either in his life or towards you, then he understands you instead of fighting over small things in life, then he will appreciate you when you do something good. This is maturity. When he does not take you for granted and instead have consideration towards you too.
@med889 (5941)
11 Sep 09
A man is mature when he takes up his responsibilities either in his life or towards you, then he understands you instead of fighting over small things in life, then he will appreciate you when you do something good. This is maturity. When he does not take you for granted and instead have consideration towards you too.
@misisbau (317)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
1. He is responsible for his own finances. 2. Logical, not too emotional. 3. Respectful to your folks, to you, to other cultures and religion. 4. Deep thinker, not a shallow person. 5. Does not sulk. 6. Does not get jealous by petty matters