why is love so hard

September 11, 2009 4:34am CST
i know we all want to be love and to love. but then, we cant hold other people's feelings. it will be more hurt for us to keep them. sometimes, no matter how hard we try, our effort is still not appreciated. but then, thats life. so its better to igve love than expect it in return. just let it come in the right way and it will.
2 responses
@rmuxagirl (7554)
• United States
12 Sep 09
Anything that is worth having takes work and love is one of them. I dont think love would be as special as it is if it wasn't hard. I think we have a hard time with other people's feelings because of course we have our own feelings and want to put our feelings first over theirs. It takes work and time to make it last of course. I think when you find someone special and worth loving they will appreciate your love and your efforts.
@Graceekwenx (3162)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
Love is hard because you would have to be blind for all the things that your partner like which you dislike. In one way or another, you adjust to him and you even change the person that you are to keep yourself pleasing to him. You have to undergo compromises and sacrifices for the sake of love.