When you want to break up with someone, should you text?

United States
September 12, 2009 1:20pm CST
In this day and age, texting has become extremly popular. It seems like everyone has a cellphone. In a lot of relationships, texting has become very popular. When the relationship doesn't go well, they argue over texting and then break up using texting. Too me, it sounds like cellphone dating. I don't know. It's all very confusing.
7 responses
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
it is better to break up in person.rather than doing it in text.it is very lame to break-up through text.it is better to end a relationship with proper closure.it is easier to move on.it is better to talk out your issues before parting ways.
@MJAL08 (275)
1 Nov 09
absolutely no! Talk to the person face to face. I konw it will hurt her or him completely but its the most acceptable.
• India
12 Sep 09
personally if ever i have to breakup from a person i would prefer to meet the person and tell him of my decision , giving him enough time to explain his version too ,if any.thats what i did when i decided to walk out of a abusive relationship.sometimes it gets difficult this way but atleast you don't have any regrets later that you were unfair at any point.i don't think this is possible in break up using text as there are so many more things to a relationship besides words
@med889 (5941)
28 Sep 09
I believe the cell phone should only be for practical use, we can call, text when it is really important but to convey feelings through the cell phone is not appropriate to me though. I prefer talking to someone face to face to tell him/her an important matter.
@shellback (864)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
I think that it much better to talk to him/her in person, Im not comportable in text messages, you cant elaborate the whole situation, so its much better to communicate peronally than thru texting.
@malamar (779)
• Canada
14 Sep 09
If you liked this person enough to date them, then please extend them the courtesy of a face-to-face breakup. No-one deserves to be dumped vis texts or emails, that is hurtful and unfair. Despite modern technology, good old fashioned manners will should still be at the forefront of any important conversations. Remember, do unto others......
• United States
12 Sep 09
Absolutely not. If at all possible, breaking up should be done in person. Not over the phone, not in a letter or email, and definitely not in a text...or in text speak! Can you imagine getting a text message that says "I don want 2 C U NEmore"???